I miss sex! - Mothering Forums
Forum Jump: 
 
Thread Tools
#1 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 04:10 PM - Thread Starter
 
neetling's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: safe in God's arms
Posts: 3,399
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My sweet boy is 4 weeks and 1 day old and I am anxious for the all clear and the last of my bleeding to go away. :

Don't hate me! But I had no tearing or other complications and I am READY TO GO!
neetling is offline  
#2 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 05:18 PM
 
doudat's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Montreal
Posts: 1,511
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
No way for me. Had a 3rd degree tear and I'm NOT looking foward to sex.
At. All.
doudat is offline  
#3 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 05:20 PM
 
mclisa's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: loving my scrapbooks!
Posts: 5,792
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
No thanks. Much to DH's disappointment. He is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO ready as he likes to remind me several times a day. I tell him to go to the bedroom by himself.

Michelle: wife to J, mom to M (2001), E (2003), C (2005), S (2007) and O! (2009) And someone new in 2011!
mclisa is offline  
#4 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 05:20 PM
 
Bartock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 3,883
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
After DS2 I had sex 2wpp.
Bartock is offline  
#5 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 05:46 PM
 
4lilfarmers's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: vermont
Posts: 2,914
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by mclisa View Post
No thanks. Much to DH's disappointment. He is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO ready as he likes to remind me several times a day. I tell him to go to the bedroom by himself.
:

chicken3.gif mama knit.gif to 3 farmboys (9 reading.gif, 6 blahblah.gif & 3 notes2.gif ) and 1 farmgirl (baby.gif)
4lilfarmers is offline  
#6 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 06:48 PM
 
koofie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Posts: 2,455
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by neetling View Post
My sweet boy is 4 weeks and 1 day old and I am anxious for the all clear and the last of my bleeding to go away. :

Don't hate me! But I had no tearing or other complications and I am READY TO GO!
You're supposed to wait for an all clear? Oops! DH couldn't have waited any longer anyway, I think

I did have tearing - I had a choice between stitches and a week in bed - I chose bed.

It was uncomfortable at first, but didn't really hurt,and everything felt fine after a minute or so (I think it was the initial stretching).
koofie is offline  
#7 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 08:20 PM
 
jocelyndale's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Charlottesville, VA
Posts: 3,565
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My libido has been roaring since almost the get go, but I'm making myself wait because of the stitches and the sciatica (won't.go.away.graH!) . . .

Chasing DS since April 2007 and pumping for DD March 2013.

jocelyndale is offline  
#8 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 08:36 PM
 
hanno's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Lansing, MI
Posts: 4,471
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
We don't usually even have sex (in fact, only once since the baby's conception) but for some reason I've been having the urge big time lately and it's not even been 3 weeks since the birth. I had a 1st degree tear that's totally healed by now.
hanno is offline  
#9 of 19 Old 05-02-2007, 10:56 PM
 
~Heyokha~'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: planting seeds and singing songs
Posts: 1,414
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I had like zero sex drive through out the pregnancy but I am feeling the urge now I am so glad- I really wondered if my sex drive would come back. With dd1 we got it on 2-3wks pp but this time around I think we will wait a bit longer. Sex sounds good but when I think of something going in or out down there---- um...kinda kills the mood
~Heyokha~ is offline  
#10 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 12:14 AM
 
kewpie-o's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 933
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm ready too. I'm surprised that I feel up to it this soon. I didn't have any tearing, but the swelling was crazy and I had a few "skidmarks". It seems almost all healed and the bleeding is almost non-existent. I'm going to ask my midwife on Fri when she weighs the baby if I really need 6 whole weeks of "pelvic rest".
kewpie-o is offline  
#11 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 12:34 AM
 
CityChic's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Chicago, IL
Posts: 1,700
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I hear you. I feel so close to DH right now...still hurts down there!

Rachael ~ Wife to : DH ~ Son 4-24-07 ~ 6-24-08 ~ Daughter 7-22-09
CityChic is offline  
#12 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 09:36 AM
 
jbpoetmom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Triangle, NC
Posts: 196
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My nurse said 4-6 weeks . . . and my DH is all over the 4 weeks idea - oh no! I have been feeling a bit frisky but the first time after birth is just not the best . . .
jbpoetmom is offline  
#13 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 03:12 PM
 
HappiMommi's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Pasadena,CA
Posts: 138
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
You??? I haven't had sex since December!!!LOL!!!
HappiMommi is offline  
#14 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 04:41 PM
 
Gumby's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Urdhva Dhanurasana
Posts: 1,847
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I think daily sex is getting me through being 42w+ pg...

My friend lamented my long gestation and I replied with, "at least I still get to have sex"

but I know what lies ahead...

Those of you who are waiting for the all clear, hang in there!
Gumby is offline  
#15 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 06:28 PM
 
starbound25's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: east coast
Posts: 878
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm ready too, as is DH I tiny tearing no stitches needed or anything
I'm very ready but not sure what we will do with baby since right now she wont really rest anywhere but in our arms and that wont work!

~Susan
widowed from Marc Nov. '09(love you more babe) mom to Sophia (9) Emma (8) Lily (5) :

starbound25 is offline  
#16 of 19 Old 05-03-2007, 07:17 PM
 
grneyes328's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island in the caribbean
Posts: 332
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
The mind is ready but the body is not. I'm still bleeding and I have one stitch left to fall out, otherwise I'd be back in the game.
grneyes328 is offline  
#17 of 19 Old 05-04-2007, 11:06 AM
Banned
 
lesley&grace's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 1,761
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm ready, dh is totally ready (who am I kidding, he's ALWAYS ready!!) but my body just is not. But then, I'm only 2 weeks pp and I had a minor tear. We are loving the fact that we can be so close though, no big belly in the way, so we are content to kiss and snuggle...for now
lesley&grace is offline  
#18 of 19 Old 05-04-2007, 08:57 PM
 
crunchy_mama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Missouri
Posts: 5,968
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
i AM SO READY AS well2w3dpp but the bleeding keeps coming back, honestly I felt more than ready at 1 week pp, I cannot even remember when my libido was this high. I didn't tear, and felt normal within a few days

Happily Married to my : 11 yrs- Mama to wild-eyed monkey boy 7-04, fiery little girl 4-07, and the happy smiley baby that sleeps 11-09!
crunchy_mama is offline  
#19 of 19 Old 05-05-2007, 01:53 PM
 
LilMomma83's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 2,645
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I am missing that too! Now that my belly is not so big I wish I could - but I think it will be awhile because I have stitches and don't know how long it will take to recover (at 5 days pp I am still very uncomfortable).

...I just love DH so much though - I see him in a whole new way it is amazing much more respect and affection I have for him!
LilMomma83 is offline  
Reply

Quick Reply
Message:
Drag and Drop File Upload
Drag files here to attach!
Upload Progress: 0
Options

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Mothering Forums forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Password:
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:

Log-in

Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page


Forum Jump: 

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off