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#1 of 29 Old 11-17-2006, 11:53 AM - Thread Starter
 
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because i am!!! dh thinks i am crazy...but definietly enjoys it with me!

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No.

Between the fact that I had severe "morning" sickness up until a week ago (I lost 17 pounds from it), the sickess still hasn't completely gone away and I'm still not eating right, I've had a cold for the past 6 days and stay up all night every night coughing, and generally feel wrecked, I have no sex drive at all.

Hopefully, after this cold passes (I definitely feel like I'm on the tail end of it), I'll also be on the upswing getting over the nausea, and things will go back to normal a bit more. I hate feeling so BLAH all the time!

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I am, but DH doesn't believe me because he keeps trying to put the moves on me at the wrong time. Like yesterday for example... I was desperately trying to get dd down for a nap. So I took her to bed and I was laying there nursing her and singing to her. I felt DH climb in bed behind me and then I realized that he was naked! I was like, what are you doing? Can't you wait until after she's fallen asleep??? He climbed out and stalked away like a wounded puppy! Then of course dd was completely woken up from this and never went down for a nap at all.

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SOOOOOOOOOO horny!!!!!!
One of my fave things about being preggo is the orgasims you have in your sleep!
AND....I just had a sex toy party....so can you say Holla?!?!?
I am so excited to try out my 16 function rabbit....
But Dp and I have a weird relationship and....I kind of don't like him. So sex with him is pretty....anh. :
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ohhh dear now we've got a whole thread devoted to this topic!!

6000 miles, people!!

the frustration is killin' me!!

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Krystal... that is what the toys are for.

I have my moments when I am, but it is usually when dh is at work and dd2 is napping, and dd1 is watching her fav afternoon tv program. :

Lizzo, 16 functions? Holy Smokes!

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Krystal... that is what the toys are for.

Lizzo, 16 functions? Holy Smokes!
Mine broke a few months ago... Batteries corroded. Now I'm inspired to find one with 16 functions, too!!! How would I ever put it down, though

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Yes, I am enjoying both the sex and the dreams!

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Well, I had a For Your Pleasure Party, but you can get it for cheaper on Adam and Eve. I highly reccomend it! ://www.adameve.com/vibrators/rabbit-super-vibe-pc-10123-3.aspx
You should take your batteries out after each use so it wont corrode. That's what the FYP lady told me.
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I'm getting there, but I am still soooooooooooo tired all the time. I dont have the energy to put the moves on DH. If he does then I'm good to go! My first 3 pregnancies I was horny as hell 4-6 weeks into the whole thing... this time not so much.

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I'm just SO tired all the time.... I know I do too much in my days but I don't have alot of choice.. after babe is here it will settle down a LOT. DH has said that he gives up, which I find depressing. : Now it is all up to me if we want to dtd and that gets to be a burden. I can see that he doesn't like being turned down all the time but I thought we've been doing pretty well at 3-4 times a week lately. Maybe I should remind him of the married italian couples stat.... 2-3 times a MONTH.

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Krystal... that is what the toys are for.
i had actually forgotten i had one of those!! :

...now to find some batteries....yep!

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Yeah.

Not in the least.

Not at all.

Wasn't even before the doctor put me on bed-rest.
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As I posted in another thread, I used to be ALL about it. I was definitely the more frequent initiator. But since pregnancy, it's all kind of... gone. I really want it to come back though. As to batteries going bad, ladies, say it with me, PLUG INs! My favorite? The Hitachi Magic Wand! expensive, but such a wonderful thing. And it's so much better for the environment too, never running out of batteries. I do admit to having a battery operated bunny though, which has been proven to be good, but I still have my one true favorite, the magic wand. It will be so nice when my sex drive comes back. I can try out my toys again.
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I was thinking about posting this but just.....hadn't
I've had quite the dreams lately, too, and the desire has gone up alot, but not necessarily for the old "in, out, in out". I've kind of enjoyed auto pilot a little more. Does things that intercourse cannot.
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Some days I am, some days I'm not. I am more tired than anything. I am sure once this stress of moving across the country is done I will be though.
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- I thought we've been doing pretty well at 3-4 times a week lately.

I am NOT telling my husband that!!!

I've been telling him that once-a-week is pretty normal.
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not necessarily for the old "in, out, in out".
I'm sorry, I'm not part of your DDC, but this just made me :

How about a bit of the old ultraviolence?

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Ya know, most womyn I know (myself included) much prefer being their own partner during pregnancy. As my one friend put it "I had much more sex with a dildo than with my husband my pregnancy...I like it that way!"
And that's how it was with DS.
Sex while pregnant= lots of work.
Sex with toys while pregnant= lots of fun!
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omg! YES


Now if we can just get some alone time...............
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I'm sorry, I'm not part of your DDC, but this just made me :

How about a bit of the old ultraviolence?


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omg! YES


Now if we can just get some alone time...............
Yeah, I bought a couple new toys this weekend, but I haven't tried them out yet. I am waiting until after the plumber leaves and the 2 kiddos at home are sleeping/tv engrossed.

Now just out of curiousity, where does one find a 16 function toy? I looked and the most I could find was 7 functions at the place I went to.

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Okay, those of you who have toys:
Does your husband approve, not approve, or not know about your toys?
I don't have any but I've always wanted to. I just kind of......take care of it.
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Oh, he approves, wholeheartedly supports, buys them for me and likes to use them while we dtd.... or at least likes me to use them while dtd.

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DH knows about and approves! We enjoy them together from time to time, and sometimes if I have that rare free time, I enjoy it by myself. Even though not at all lately.
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Dh knows and doesn't seem to care.

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Yeah, I bought a couple new toys this weekend, but I haven't tried them out yet. I am waiting until after the plumber leaves and the 2 kiddos at home are sleeping/tv engrossed.

Now just out of curiousity, where does one find a 16 function toy? I looked and the most I could find was 7 functions at the place I went to.
I put the link up.
It has 4 functions for the head, 4 functions for the rabbit and like...8 speeds.
Dp "approves". And eat can bite me if he doesn't. He has his own little collection anyway!
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No, and I so want to be!! I've essentially had no sex drive since DD was born except for when I was ovulating. My poor dh. I am PRAYING that something happens in the second tri of this pregnancy because I feel horrible about it but not sure what I can do other than fake it!

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