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rosie29 11-07-2006 02:22 PM

Well, I never thought I would be starting a thread like this one. However, yesterday I miscarried. I had bleeding all weekend and I think I just knew that the pregnancy was over, so I'm finding that I had a little preparation, mentally, and I'm coping pretty well, considering the circumstances. DH, on the other hand, says it feels like "being punched in the gut" so I feel bad for him. The poor partner, all he can do thru pregnancy, delivery, and bad news like this, is to be a bystander and try to be supportive. That can't be easy. Anyhow, the u/s showed that the m/c was complete so I'm relieved that a d&c is not necessary. I appreciate having been a part of this DDC for a while. Don't worry, I'll be back in a new DDC in a few months, I'm sure of that. Best wishes to all of you!

Robbins0614 11-07-2006 02:44 PM

Oh, Rosie, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

54mama 11-07-2006 02:46 PM

I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are in a good place, continue to take good care of yourself and your family.

mommamin 11-07-2006 03:04 PM

So Sorry! I am glad that you are thinking positive!

SongbirdSinging 11-07-2006 03:15 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, and for your DH too. SO many times, their grief is NEVER acknowledged by those around you, like they have no feelings. That was my DH's experience; a coworker gave him a card the last time, and it was a huge healing thing for him to know this person actually cared.

<<hugs>> to you all..... will you please pop in and let us know if you end up on another DDC??

Jilian 11-07-2006 03:24 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tell your DH we are all thinking of him as well. It must be really hard for him. Like songbird said, DH's often get overlooked during times like this. Take good care of yourself

mamallama 11-07-2006 05:19 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

saratchka 11-07-2006 05:43 PM

I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm glad to hear you're coping well. Best of luck to you!

jstar 11-07-2006 06:50 PM

i'm so sorry for you and your dh glad you don't have to have a d&c though.

firemommaof1 11-07-2006 09:11 PM

Oh Honey and one for your husband
I am so sorry to hear the bad news... I'll be looking for you name in the future due date clubs... take good care of youself.

torio 11-07-2006 10:03 PM

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Sending love to you and your DH! xo

rosie29 11-08-2006 09:34 AM

Thanks for your support, everyone. It is amazing to me that complete strangers can reach out and be so caring. I appreciate it.

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Originally Posted by SongbirdSinging View Post
<<hugs>> to you all..... will you please pop in and let us know if you end up on another DDC??
Yep, I'll let you know WHEN I end up on another DDC. (I guess I'm treading that fine line between being cocky and confident, but with both my pgcies we conceived on the first cycle trying, so I have every reason to believe I'll be pg again soon (after waiting 1 mo per CNM's suggestion). Thanks again and best wishes to you all!

jennay 11-08-2006 09:37 PM

I'm very sorry

tuscany123 11-09-2006 12:00 AM

Good luck, and I hope I will be joining you on another DDB soon too

Isaac'smama 11-09-2006 12:53 AM


buffybutt 11-09-2006 03:07 AM

Hugs to you mama, and good luck trying again.

AngelBee 11-09-2006 04:54 AM


sally Z 11-09-2006 05:59 AM

sorry you are going through this for you and your dh.
hope you are in another ddc soon

mommy77 11-10-2006 04:23 AM

I am sorry *hugs*
Sending you and your dh love

PatchChild 11-10-2006 10:15 AM


hannahnc 11-10-2006 12:11 PM


WhiteWax 11-10-2006 05:44 PM

I'm so sorry... sending you and dh our love

rosie29 07-04-2007 06:23 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by SongbirdSinging View Post
<<hugs>> to you all..... will you please pop in and let us know if you end up on another DDC??
Hi All-
As promised, I'm here to let you know that I'm back in another DDC!!!! I'm due Jan. 20th. I'm about 11.5 weeks along and we heard the h/b last week, so hopefully we are in the clear and will have smooth sailing here on out. My congrats to those of you with new babies, my labor vibes to those of you still waiting to deliver, and my hugs to those of you who are recovering after a loss.

vannienicole 07-04-2007 06:43 PM

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awallrising 07-04-2007 07:39 PM

Congratulations! I wish you the best of luck!

loriu 07-04-2007 09:21 PM

i got chills reading this happy update...
congrats and warm loving vibes to you and your growing babe
xo.

hippie_mommy 07-04-2007 09:26 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by rosie29 View Post
Hi All-
As promised, I'm here to let you know that I'm back in another DDC!!!! I'm due Jan. 20th.
Congratulations!!! That was my due date with my older two, so I think it is a great day to have a baby

PatchChild 07-05-2007 10:21 AM

Congrats!! Thanks so much for coming back to let us know. Very best wishes to you.

wombatclay 07-05-2007 11:34 AM

yay! congrats!

jbobys 07-05-2007 12:55 PM

ow fantastic! im really happy for you!


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