Can I post here, even though I'll be triandem nursing?!!!!
Dd rarely nurses now (every couple of days), but still does here and there. She so patient and respectful of my physical limits with regards to nursing.
Tandeming was the best thing I ever did when I had my ds. (yes, sticky/annoying at times, but what isn't?!) All of my friends with two kids were freaking out b/c "when the newborn slept, the toddler was awake, and when the toddler was sleeping, the newborn was awake"... they were going nuts. So, everyday, I went to bed with both kids and put a video on for Jee. Nursed Peter to sleep. Rolled over nursed Jee to sleep, and we all slept for 2-3 hours... EVERYDAY!!! It was pure heaven and seriously maintained my sanity postpartum.
I did tandem sometimes, but the stimulation of having two at the same time, one with a long, hard suck (toddler- felt weird all of a sudden to nurse her with her big head and big mouth) and one with the little mouth and little, semi-strong sucks made my skin crawl. I did it if I had to (think 3am, two kids screaming), but typically could hold off Jee until Peter got done. I'm not so sure I can hold Peter off until Kalia gets done, we'll see. BTW, Jee had no problem sharing and Peter also wants to share with his new little sister. I really think it helped with jealousy, as the toddler got private time with me, doing the best thing in the world (my kids LOVE nursing!) Good luck!