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It's quite possible she has been molested. I suggest talking to her by gently asking her questions about where she got the idea for it, if anyone has done similar things to her.
I would ask her very directly who else she plays with by talking her pants off.
I would also assure her that I completely and totally loved her.
I would also talk to your younger DD and ask if things like this have happened before, and if she says no, ask why she thought her sister would get mad. I would work with her on saying NO, even if it makes other people mad. Its really OK to make other people mad, its better than feeling icky.
I'm very sorry your family is going through this. If it does turn out that your older DD has been molested, there are agencies available in major cities that can help.
but everything has pros and cons