Pregnant teen daughter-due 10/3
My daughter is 16, pregnant and due on Oct. 3. She is doing well so far, worked all summer, getting ready to go back to school. Her school system provides day care for students, including transportation, encourages breastfeeding, will allow her to pump at school. She had left her school for online school but didn't do well with that. She's very excited about the support she will have at school. But, her boyfriend, who has worked maybe 3 weeks since she got pregnant, and is not in school, wants to control things. He told her that he thought he was going to take care of the baby while she is in school. He has also said that he wants to be the only one in the delivery room. I want to be with her during labor and delivery to know that she and the baby are ok. She is still my child. He is manipulative, and definitely has some mental health issues that have not been treated. Lately, he has been very disrespectful toward me, and I have had to limit how much he comes over. I really don't know how things will play out. At this point, I know that she won't take off with him and the baby. He doesn't even have a place to live. She knows she has it good here, even when she and her dad fight. And she wants a diploma, not a GED.
I am just so tired of dealing with this irrational boyfriend. He tries to pull her from her family and make us look like the bad guys.
I want nothing more than for her and her baby to be happy, healthy, and safe and for her to be able to succeed at whatever she wants in life.
I appreciate any insight, experiences, etc