I don't really know how often it is for a the child to be in a mothering forum asking for help and advice..(not very often I'm.gonna assume). Well, here it goes. I'm 18, foster child, and have been with my current mother since I was two.. I love her to death.. But last few years its like we've split.
Her boyfriend and I had a fight May 2014 and he still won't talk to me.. Ever since then the situation between my mother and I have gotten significantly worse. We fight more.. But she is always calling me names.. Always saying I'm the only one doing anything bad in the house, and then I'll end up proving to her it wasn't me and she just yells at me and calls me a self centered brat.. I don't know what to do. To me it feels like she's sided with her boyfriend.. If I wanna go with her somewhere she always "has" to ask him even if he's outside chopping wood or working on something, and he always says he wants to go so I'm no longer to go. I can't go on.vacations with them, but when I wanna go hangout with friends she throws a temper tantrum ... Saying that I never go with them anywhere but will go with friends. I hate how we've split so much.. I hate how I feel like I'm the only one that wants it back to the way it was.. The other day I get home we fought and she busted out into tears, saying she's sorry for being like that, then turned around an hour later and was at it even worse..
Thanks in advance..
Her boyfriend and I had a fight May 2014 and he still won't talk to me.. Ever since then the situation between my mother and I have gotten significantly worse. We fight more.. But she is always calling me names.. Always saying I'm the only one doing anything bad in the house, and then I'll end up proving to her it wasn't me and she just yells at me and calls me a self centered brat.. I don't know what to do. To me it feels like she's sided with her boyfriend.. If I wanna go with her somewhere she always "has" to ask him even if he's outside chopping wood or working on something, and he always says he wants to go so I'm no longer to go. I can't go on.vacations with them, but when I wanna go hangout with friends she throws a temper tantrum ... Saying that I never go with them anywhere but will go with friends. I hate how we've split so much.. I hate how I feel like I'm the only one that wants it back to the way it was.. The other day I get home we fought and she busted out into tears, saying she's sorry for being like that, then turned around an hour later and was at it even worse..
Thanks in advance..