The reason why the mental health centre things feels unresolved is because it is. There were so many things to deal with that I had put it at the back of my mind for a while. I just called up the mental health centre and the meeting we had wasn't an assessment, it was an "intake" meeting (I guess to put us on the waiting list for an assessment). SO.. there are 20 other kids/families AHEAD of us. And the person we spoke to left the organization/location whatever. Unless my kid is actively trying to kill himself right now he will be at the bottom of the list. So I guess if they wait long enough he will no longer be a kid/living at home or be dead from a suicide.