My best friend is currently having issues in her home with her 3 children(all girls) and her husband. Alot of it has stemmed from him doing very illegal things and blaming his actions on his wife. Anyway, 2 of the 3 girls(ages 15&17) share a best friend who's 15, we'll call Jay. She has been there for almost a month, only leaving one night (with the other two girls) to stay at her moms house. The girls and father are constantly at war with their mother/wife. Jay has now started insulting her and being very disrespectful. Well Jay has now been wearing my friends husband's (her friends dad's) t-shirts and her underwear around the house and around him. She has also at times when she's actually dressed is wearing the mom's clothes. She has no permission from the mom to go through her closet and take what she'd like. This child also stays at her house when the girls are gone with relatives. My friend was upstairs yesterday, fully knowing that her kids were all gone and suddenly music came on and the bathroom door was shut. Jay's boyfriend also lives in town and she randomly just leaves and goes there for hours. My friend has tried to have her go home but the girls and her husband refuse to see any issue. She's gone as far as telling them she'd get ahold of Jay's mom and girls and husband totally freaked out. I've tried to warn them about the issues it could potentially cause and my friend absolutely agrees but her husband doesn't, claims she's being insecure. Jay's mom already has issues with the older daughter, claiming she's a bad influence and doesn't allow her (most of the time) to go to their house. I just don't see this being a good thing as kids, especially girls can fuss and already have. I'm afraid that when school starts again it'll somehow end up being mentioned in school and cps getting involved? Does anyone else find this as disturbing as I do?