Is it just me, or does part of that look like a submissive's list in a BDSM relationship...
"fun things to do-
Does your kid actually want you to set a routine for her, or do you think she needs it? Most 9 year olds I know dont really want to have to conform to follow a schedule.
How do you differentiate punishment from chores? One bad thing she has to do is associated with you being angry, one isn't? Not exactly the most encouraging difference. And what if she conformed to your demands that day? You have an empty timeslot.
There is a difference between unschooling and homeschooling. If you designate 'learn time' you're homeschooling.
Hope this helps.