Well, emmaline, that's an amazing boy you have :LOL
Just like mine! ds does the same thing although we are fortunate to not have the allergy issues. Is it just not cool to eat lunch or something? He'll take and eat cookies and other cr*p, and he used to eat well, really, he did. Now it's only white bread (so I buy enriched with soya flour) and he'll rarely eat veggies without a nag. My best friend's brother used to be the same way, though and he is now healthy and eats healthy. There is hope for these guys. I'm just keeping at it, asking him what he's eaten, then talking about proper nutrition. He says he doesn't want to tell me what he's eaten b/c I'll get mad. (?) I have to promise not to and discuss the issue w/o judgment. He definitely keeps me on my toes!