I completely understand where you are coming from. I have a lay Midwife and am doing a waterbirth at home. I am currently 38 weeks, 5 days and I believe my Midwife has me do biweekly NSTs if I go past my EDD. DH and I are so against going to the hospital for any reason. DH does not want me to get them no matter what and I would consider if I felt something was wrong. Like you I feel that everything is good and I would know if something didnt feel right. I did have an ultrasound at 25 weeks and it pushed my EDD back 5 days so I think I will try to negoiate with that if I go past my original EDD. I am hoping to go into labor before my EDD and know what you are going through. Do not let them talk you into unnecessary interventions if you do go get the NST. Good luck!
Jaime, SAHM to Autumn Jane 10/07 and Alexander 12/10