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Old 11-27-2007, 10:42 PM
 
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I'm so sorry.. You all are in my prayers.

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Old 11-27-2007, 10:43 PM
 
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I am so sorry for your family.

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Like others, words fail me. Although I think in this situation there are no words that can help. Please know that my dh and I (and many friends irl and here online) are thinking of you and your family, and baby Bryce.

Bryce

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omg omg :

I will have your family in my thoughts and prayers

and will tonight for Bryce

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for you and your dh Candy. I am so very sorry.

Beautiful baby Bryce
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Hopefully I can write this i need to keep it brief

There's no change we have begun the process of declaringing brain death the reason we are doing this is because his organs have recovered

something they didn't think would happen

which makes him a canidate for organ donation

we need this i will survive everyday the rest of my life by knowing he gave life to others.

i know this is why he was given us for 5 weeks so that we could be medians and give him to others.

I love you all.

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Oh...words can't even express...your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

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Not in your DDC, but so, so much love to you and your family, mama.
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Oh..I'm so sorry, but I am glad that you will be able to find some peace knowing how much he is helping others to live
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Oh, Mama...

Peace to you and your family.
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Hopefully I can write this i need to keep it brief

There's no change we have begun the process of declaringing brain death the reason we are doing this is because his organs have recovered

something they didn't think would happen

which makes him a canidate for organ donation

we need this i will survive everyday the rest of my life by knowing he gave life to others.

i know this is why he was given us for 5 weeks so that we could be medians and give him to others.

I love you all.

Candy
You are such a strong mother to consider donating his organs. I am so sorry for your loss, and thank you for giving this gift to others. I hope that it will provide a small measure of brightness in your grief.

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Wow Candy...that is really strong for you do donate his organs and to look at all of this as positively as possible.

I am so sorry, I am not really sure what to say.

You, Micheal and Bryce are in my heart.


We love you.

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I am crying for you, my heart is aching. I hope that everyone who gets to live with your baby boy's help will have a happy life.
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I'm not in your ddc but I wanted to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. My father is the recipient of a donor organ; there are no words for the generosity of your gift.
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Many blessings to you and your family. for baby Bryce, and gentle for you and your DH.
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Not in your DDC but my heart breaks for you. Many thoughts and prayers being sent out tonight.
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Also not in your DDC, but I wanted to express both my sorrow at your loss and my tremendous admiration for the gift of organ donation. It's a wonderful thing to do in the face of staggering tragedy.

for Bryce.
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I am so so very sorry Candy!!!!!! Your gift is just unimaginable. I know that other families will have your sweet Bryce in their hearts forever!
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You are such a strong mother to consider donating his organs. I am so sorry for your loss, and thank you for giving this gift to others. I hope that it will provide a small measure of brightness in your grief.

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bless you, mama, for being so giving. many prayers for you and your family :

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I am crying for you, so touched by the whole story, and so proud of your choice to donate his organs. What a precious boy.

My heart and prayers go out to you.

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My heart goes out to you and your family.
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I am so sorry.

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Oh, my God. You have my prayers.
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I hope the unselfish choice you're making now will bring you a measure of peace and comfort in the years to come. You're doing an incredibly generous thing.

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Not in your ddc but I want to express my sorrow for your loss and my admiration for your courageous decision to donate Bryce's organs. My heart goes out to you and your family. :
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