i have friends that are having their 2nd child. i know what to get mom b/c she and i are alike in a lot of ways (mothering mag & making a sling for her). but, i have no idea what to get dad. they have a 3yo ds & aren't finding out the sex of #2, due in march. dad is pretty much a redneck...hate to sterio-type but that's the short description. i can't imagine he'd sling the new one...they only family bed b/c it's "the easiest way to make bed time work". no AP or GD from dad and he doesn't read. so, any suggestions? i am at a complete loss. even if you don't fit this daddy's description let me know what you wanted. ideas might help me get in the right frame of mind for figuring this out. thanks for your help!