My DH and I both use Maya Wraps. He has his and I have mine. His is a nice green/black striped and mine is the more "femmy" purple. This way the slings are adjusted to fit us all ready...we started out using just one and we both constantly complained that we had to do major adjusting after the other person wore it. So I got DH his own and it works great. That way we can "pass the baby" if we need to.