Join Date: Aug 1999
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|View Poll Results: We would like to change the name of the from from "Dads" to "Fathering." How do|
|I like it!||51||62.96%|
|I don't like it!||5||6.17%|
|Voters: 81. You may not vote on this poll|
My wife is due Sep 1, but I still replied even though I'm not technically a Dad. Been reading this website for a couple weeks now.
In any case, I feel that naming this Fathering is needlessly exclusionary. With the way the forum is named currently, the "Dads" area is not necessarily oppositional to the rest of the forum. Fathering makes it much more a direct split between this and "Mothering" being the other couple dozen forums.
I, for one, would like to see a dad-specific place, where the gender of your sign-in (log-in) allows your posting rights to the forum. If your gender, as recorded in your log-in (user CP) is female, you can read the dad's forum, but not post in it.
There are a dozen other forums to post about and reply to specific issues, but the ONE place that dads have to for-sure (try to) get another dad's input is this forum. And 9.9 times out of 10, that topic gets trampled by mums. In fairness, they sometimes try and impart what their husband does/says/feels about the issue. But that's not the point.
If you want to increase the profile of the site, foster more active participation from men and let us have a dad's/fathering zone where men can stop in and discuss with other men, then you have to figure out how to keep the threads from being trampled by non-men.
As for the name? It doesn't matter. A name is a name and it's what's inside that counts.
My concern is that putting Dads or Fathering as a sub forum will ultimately lead to a slow death for this forum. It makes it not so obvious and that much more difficult to find for new dads / fathers. It's never been the most active forum, and I fear it will become even less active because of the move.
sorry, but sometimes men do have clearer views on things than other women.