I'm really sorry. Please remember how much our hormones do to us now! I am sure her's are pumping at full steam, and while that does not make what she is doing right, maybe it will help to try to understand. I really *did* steal the limelight from my brother and SIL. They were waiting until Saturday, their anniversary to tell they were PG, and I told on Tuesday (I had NO idea! I thought they would wait until later this summer to try, it was their first anniversary). THen SIL's Dr told her it might be twins, to expect twins, but didn't give her an US (still doesn't have one!) to confirm, so they are hoping for twins, talking about twins, ect... and guess what! I AM PG WITH TWINS! I had not said much besides telling my mom I thought I was b/c I hated to "copy" her, but I had told DH and my best friend I was sure it was twins before the US. WHen I went back to mom's to get Lacy and take her to the US to check for twins she didn't think I was serious. I just said quietly that I was pretty sure it was twins and had been thinking so for a long time. I know my SIL HAS to have some negative feelings towards all of this, I certainly didn't plan it, but I think she is justified to feel this way. I really wanted her to have the spotlight for a while durring her pregnancy, and I cannot wait to hear what they are having! SHe is supposed to have an US this week, and is still thinking twins. If it is, my mom is going to flip! SHe just keeps saying "I'm either having 3 or 4 new grandbabies this year!!!" SHe is getting a list of "Grandma's" baby stuff that she will need at her house now that there are so many babies, I honestly think she may buy a crib, but she definately wants a pack-n-play and a bouncer or two. If it is two sets of twins, I definately want her to have a "Grandma Shower" with her friends!
Oh, and my SIL is 5 weeks ahead of me! My sister also got PG that month (we musta ALL been busy!) but miscarried, so that kinda adds an odd angle in there, too. She says she is fine, but the babies aren't here yet, KWIM?