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#1 of 11 Old 02-06-2008, 02:03 AM - Thread Starter
 
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another nice episode of not real labor
this was the worst one yet
it was starting to HURT
why did it have to stop!!!!!!
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Does that even come close to describing how I am feeling?


I just want my baby i just want my baby i just want my baby!!!!!!!!!

I am just 40 weeks so I am fine keeping him in. I am just getting frustrated with this and the unsupportiveness of my dh and mom.

thanks for listening

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Remember, it IS real labor. Every time something squeezes, it's accomplishing something. Maybe it's just uterus toning, maybe it's repositioning the baby, maybe it's moving the baby down, but you're not just sitting there spazzing.

Hang in there! At least your uterus is doing SOMETHING

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I totally agree w/ writerbird, at least you've got *something* going on & it looks like you're heading in the right direction!

Hang in there & you'll have your sweet baby soon enough

What is you due date? Mine's Thursday

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Birth is a whole of pregnancy experience. EVERY single contraction, from the orgasm that brings em in to the last afterpain, is bringing that babe safely to your arms.

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Oh, Nina... I'm sorry it's such a rough go for you. You can get through it, and we can give you virtual massages if you like!

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I would just like to point out that it seems everytime one of us has posted one of these actual labor and delivery has been literally around the corner?

*hugs* Mama I hope DH and Mom will buck up and realize what you are going through and help! No fun having a bunch of unsupportive onlookers when what you really need is support!

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yep. what she said. you better get on and give us an update.

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I hope things are moving along for you now. Looking forward to an update with you holding your babe! Take care of yourself mama.
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Not moving along yet.. but baby is definately moving position. I have been trying different positions for the past two weeks trying to get him to move. But being one of my kids he has been stubborn about it.

I actually yelled at them (Dh and my mom) last night I was so mad. And I don't do that.
Then I cried for about an hour!

I KNOW there will be an end to this... I just hate not knowing when it will be.

My EDD was either 2/2 or 2/5
Good thing I know that that E means estimated!
And my babies DO need the time.
Both the boys were 42 weeks and tiny, just over 6 lbs. And we were sure about their dates.
I really am okay with being pregnant a bit longer but this start and stop is sooooooooooooooooo frustrating!


Just waiting for the pain that doesn't stop until the baby is here

Crazy me

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EVERY single contraction, from the orgasm that brings em in to the last afterpain, is bringing that babe safely to your arms.
I LOVE this! I need to go write it down and remember it!

Hope you end up in laborland soon, without too much more painful practice!
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nina- thank you for waiting and being patient. it is hard but worth it to trust your babe.

ITA with everyone else about "there's nothing false about it!" you are progressing!

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