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#1 of 44 Old 09-25-2007, 11:58 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi all,

I am 14 weeks and I went for my first u/s. Unfortunately, my baby has passed away. I am going to the hospital tomorrow to have the baby induced and we will plan a memorial for a later date (private).

Please remove me from the 3/08 due date list. My date was 3/28. I'll check in with all of you from time to time to see when you have your sweet littl ones.

Blessings to you all,

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We are expecting baby #7 in November 2013

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Oh I'm so sorry to read this.
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So sorry for your loss, mama. We will miss you

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Oh, I'm so very sorry for your loss I can imagine how heartbreaking this must be for you, to learn this news at this stage of pregnancy. My heart goes out to you. I hope the memorial service will be beautiful.

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Im so sorry! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry for your loss. : ( (((mama)))

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I'm so sorry for your loss
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so sorry for your loss. The loss board really helped me if you haven't been there yet I would make a visit.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry.
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: I am so so sorry, mama.
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I'm so sorry.

 
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Jen, my heart is breaking for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss
It's good you didn't have to wait too long for your induction, it's awful to wait.
Please take good care of yourself. I hope you are surrounded by people who love you and can support you and understand what you're going through. Wishing you peace and healing.
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What an awful surprise, I'm so sorry! My thoughts are with you and your sweet little angel.
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So sorry
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I am so sorry. That is such difficult news. I didn't post there much, but I did find the loss board very helpful as well. Wishing you peace.
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: All of my thoughts and prayers for you, your family, and your little angel. I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry.
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Oh, mama. I'm sorry.
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I am so sorry for you loss, Jen. We had a memorial service for the baby that I lost 2 1/2 years ago at 12 weeks. It helped us to have that special time to say goodbye. We (me and my daughters) wrote a letter to the baby and told her (didn't know if it was a girl or boy....just had that gut feeling) how much we'd miss her and would always love her and that we would meet again one day.

I pray that peace and healing find you and your family soon. You are in my thoughts.

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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry. I hope you are surrounded by love through your grief.
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i'm sorry to hear your sad news. Take care of yourself!
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Bless your heart!
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Thank you all for your kind words. Unfortunately I did not get induced today. I had to get heparin late last night so the procedure has to be postponed for a few days. I will post an update once it is done.

Blessings,

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Hugs. That is heartbreaking news. Hang in there as best you can.

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