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#1 of 18 Old 02-23-2008, 02:35 AM - Thread Starter
 
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And came home....really really unhappy now.
I am dilated to a one
Cerclage has only one stitch left
and contractions every 10 mins.
WHY AM I HOME?
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Wow, I'd be bummed too! Why do you still have one stitch?

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Id be telling a dr off at that point Aint no way in heck I was comprimising what was left of my cervical integrity because a dr wasnt willing to remove it when I was in full blown labor......id be knocking the crap outta a dr if anything happens to your cervix because they are unwilling to deal with it properlly.
But you already know that!
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Hang in there mama! He'll be here sooner than you know.

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At this point I can't walk to the bathroom with out almost passing out.
I am not a wimp...I have had 4 all natural births that can't compare to this.
Really just wanting some relief
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Robin, what's up with the cerclage? Why won't the docs just take it out? It sounds like you're in absolute misery. Are you planning a hospital birth or home? Just wondering if you can get the care you deserve (and need!!).
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He said it was his weekend and he had plans...
So I could call monday to talk about it. I can take 2 extra strength tyelnol a day every 4 hours. Just really thinking that Monday I will be waiting for him....in the parking lot and hit him in his crotch with a baseball bat and see if tylenol works.

Serious I am going to call and tell him the stiches have got to come out and soon!
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Just really thinking that Monday I will be waiting for him....in the parking lot and hit him in his crotch with a baseball bat and see if tylenol works.
You poor mama. Is there anything that would work for distraction? (not that it's even possible...) I hope you get some relief tomorrow. I wouldn't take no for an answer!

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Ugh, I would absolutely report that doctor! Hang in there mama - if you have the same doc when you deliver maybe you can kick him in the head!

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Ugh, I would absolutely report that doctor! Hang in there mama - if you have the same doc when you deliver maybe you can kick him in the head!
That would probaly be a better idea...the bat thing might just get me arrested...lol.
I have been up since 3 something this morning cause moving causes so much pelvic floor pain it makes me gasp. Really thinking that no matter how much pain it causes walking in the house today could help me to dilate some more. Although with the stitch still in that could be dangerous. Just fed up with the whole medical experience. WE always leave the doctors ticked off about soemthing. I miss my midwife and the fact that she KNEW me. She didn't ask me to compromise what I felt in my heart was wrong (re:meds in labor) for me. He thinks if you don't want meds you are not in pain. MEN stink sometimes.
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I hope you get to hold your sweet LO soon!
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I hope you can get the stitch out today and meet you r baby soon.
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Yikes! I hope you get that stitch out TODAY and don't leave till they do it! That sounds awful! good luck!
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