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#1 of 40 Old 09-15-2007, 02:44 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I had an ultrasound yesterday due to some pain on one side and it showed a very small, empty sac - not appropriate development for almost 6 weeks. My OB (whom I really like a lot) said that it's probably about 50/50, but I think he's basing that on me being off on my dates, which is impossible, as I know when we had sex. I had bloodwork done yesterday and will repeat it on Tuesday. I am pretty devastated. This will be our third miscarriage. I will update, regardless of the news, but I am sure that it is not going to be good.

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really hoping you're well...

remember that they can't see a whole lot at six weeks...so give it some time.

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I'm so sorry. I'll think positive thoughts for you.

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I'll pray that God will bless you, and that you'll be able to feel His loving arms around you and your family. ITA that ultrasound isn't the final word.
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I'm also praying for you! So sorry mama.
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We are thinking of you.

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You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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**Hugs**
We had 3 M/C before DS stuck, I had an US at 7 weeks with him and was told he would not make it, he is 12 weeks old today...
Don't give up Mama!
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Sending you lots of hug and prayers. Be well, mama.

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Thanks, mamas.

I started spotting this morning. I am also having pretty intense cramping. I put a call into my OB to let him know. I assume this is the start of miscarriage #3. I am totally devastated. I can't believe this is happening again

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I am so very sorry mama. I hope your OB will do tests, my friend had 2 miscarriages and they told her if she had a third they would do testing to see if there was something preventable.

My heart goes out to you, I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry mama!
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peace to you.

Me+DH+DS1+DS2+Dog=me and a house full of guys, which is really just peachy, thanks.
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I am so, so sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm am so sorry.
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I'm so sorry.

Many s to you and your family.


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i am so sorry for your loss.

you are in my thoughts.
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Just wanted to update and say that I had an U/S last Thursday that showed that the sac was still growing, despite heavy bleeding. On Monday, I had another U/S that showed that I miscarried completely on my own. :

Hopefully God will see fit to bless us again at some point.

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I'm sorry Mama.

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I'm so sorry. It's just not fair Take good care of yourself and hug your daughter lots and lots.

Used to be stay at home parent to our two lovely girls, survived nursing school with family intact, about to graduate and looking for a job! I low-supply nursed my bio daughter for 3 years. 

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I am so so sorry.

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I am so sorry for your loss momma!!!

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I'm so sorry.

Mama to Aeden, : my little NICU grad and Conner and Liam () my precious twins. is due mid April!
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oh, no...i'm so very sorry.
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