> But DDs are not such a big deal, only if you have a care provider that is going to pressure you into doing something you dont want if you are "past" due
This is why I always go with the later day. Hardly anyone questions an "early" baby, but if you hit 40-41 weeks, people start stressing out! Definitely go with the later date. And, stay on this list as it's much more fun to be one of the first moms to have a baby than one of the last! LOL!