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#61 of 130 Old 03-23-2008, 08:55 PM
 
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I am so sorry.
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Oh Jen I can't even fathom the depth of your loss. I'm glad that you were treated compassionately at the hospital and I hope you are able to avail yourself of every avenue of healing open to you.

Remembering Owen
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I'm so so sorry to read of your loss.
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Jen I'm so shocked and sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you. Big hugs to you and your family.

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I'm so sorry. Hugs to you, and you will be in my prayers.
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Not in your ddc, but wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss!!!!
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Oh honey!!!! I am SO sorry for your loss! I'm so glad, though, that you were able to hold and love your sweet Owen (LOVE his name...) and spend that precious time with him!

Much love and many hugs to you!!!

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Not in your ddc but couldn't not post
I wish you and your family peace and healing beyond all human understanding:
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss
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Theres no words that I can say to express my deepest sympathies for you and your family! I am so: sorry for your loss. Take care

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Jen- I am so sorry. Wishing you comfort in this difficult time
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Oh my heart breaks for you. Let us know if you need anything I'll be saying prayers for you and your family
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So so sorry.
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So sorry for your loss. I know words can not really help. But just wanted you to know that you were in my thoughts and prayers.

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Formerly in your DDC.

I'm so sorry to read this- I hope you find the support and love you need in the days, weeks, and months to come.

I'm glad that the hospital staff was kind and compassionate and that you were able to have a peaceful birth and spend time with Owen.
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Oh gosh Jen, I am so so sorry to hear about Owen. I find it hard to even imagin what you and your family must be going through. How wonderful that you were given the time to spend with him and bond with his spirit. I'm sure he knows how much he is loved and will take that with him. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you - cyberspace can be so cold in that way. But we're here for for you, and we're sending prayers your way.

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Peace and healing to you and your family. Mama, I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

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not in your ddc, but i am thinking of you and your sweet baby. i'm sorry for your loss, mama.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I'm so sorry.

You will treasure Owen's photos forever and I'm glad you will have those. And you were talking about all the pregnant women around you in your life. Take a break from them if you can. It's really hard seeing babies and pregnant bellies after a loss. Have a close family member let everyone know what has happened so you don't have to tell it so many times. It hurts every time in the beginning. Losing a baby is something I wish NO one had to go through ever.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I just want to give you a , too.

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Owen Loved & Cherished

Jen, my heart is with you & your family.

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I'm so sorry, Jen. My prayers are with you.

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Jen, I'm sooooooooooo sorry for you loss.
for you and you family.

Owen

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Not in your DDC, but I read this and it broke my heart.

I am so very sorry for your loss. Owen is certainly watching over you and will love you forever, as you will him.

Take care and heal, Jen.
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Baby Owen

to you and your entire family, mama. May you find healing and peace soon.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Oh mama, no words, just (((((hugs))))).
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Jen - My heart hurts for you and your family. There are no words to express my deepest sympathy.

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