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#1 of 45 Old 01-08-2008, 10:37 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Please, mamas, send my little bean . I'm around 11 weeks, the m/s began lifting 2 days ago. I was starting to feel so much better. I thought it was the diclectin working, and that I'd soon be onto a happy 2nd trimester. But then I began bleeding pretty heavily late this afternoon. Of course now I think the feeling better was actually a bad sign. Ultrasound in the morning. I am sad but trying to stay calm. Just in case that might help. But of course, I just don't know. Things, though, don't look good. I've bled a lot. Bright red. :
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I hope that things will be alright.

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Hugs and prayers for you and your baby, mama.
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Sending : that the baby will be ok. Keep us updated

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Sending prayers and good thoughts your way.
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Hang in there, baby!

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Sending good thoughts...

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Not in your DDC, but I too bled right around that time due to a subchorionic hemorrhage. Sounds worse than it is, but around 11 weeks when the placenta attaches to the uterine wall (about the time m/s starts easing) it can trap a little blister of blood that will from time to time bleed until the bubble of blood is gone, or until your body absorbs it. In most cases this is completely harmless to you and the baby.

I will keep you and your precious baby in my thoughts and I hope tomorrow's scan reveals a beautiful little baby with a beating heart, and a harmless explanation for the bleeding.

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Praying for both of you. *hugs*
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You are in my thoughts. Sending lots of positive wishes your way.

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and Keeping fingers crossed for you and your babe.
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Praying! Big hug mama.
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hoping for you!

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I am hoping for you too. I hope it is what SumnerRain described or something else that won't harm your baby.
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I am praying for you and your baby. I'm sure everything is fine and this is just a passing flunk. Stay positive.

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Sending positive thoughts to you!
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I had a bout of bleeding with my first at 11 wks and the baby was okay. I hope everything is okay with you and your baby!

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Had the ultrasound this morning, and there was a baby and a heartbeat!

I am cautiously optimistic, and exhausted.
It was a subchorionic hemmorhage, as SumnerRain described. But these things can vary a lot in size/severity. Although most times they are relatively harmless, when severe enough they can cause m/c. Mine was large. Which I already knew, because I was gushing blood yesterday--like 3 huge postpartum pads soaked through with bright red blood. Physician said that it was good that the baby had survived the hemmoraging. So hopefully that will be it; over time the tear will heal. But, this could continue the entire pregnancy. Or worse, the pg itself could still end.

But, for now, we have a heartbeat. I was surprised, and thrilled.
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Congratualtions! So happy the baby's holding on.

Good luck
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Great news! Keeping you in my thoughts!

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Congratulations! That is great news that the baby is still doing well!
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oh my goodness. i am so relieved to read that. what a rollercoaster you have been on. rest up. you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Great news - good luck mama!

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Not in your DDC but wanted send you big hugs. I am so glad you got a happy report today. I wishing a happy and healthy pg.

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