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#1 of 43 Old 02-21-2008, 11:58 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Our little girl has passed away. She had no heartbeat at my 14-week appointment. We are devastated. It will be too painful for me to stay here but I do wish you all the best -- healthy pregnancies and babies.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm not in your DDC but I just wanted to say I am so sorry for the loss of your little one.

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No! Oh, PLMama, I am so, so sorry!

Sending healing thoughts to you and your family.


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Oh no. I am so sorry for your loss mama.

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So sorry for your loss, PLM.
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My prayers are with you.
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I am so sorry for your loss mama.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
When you feel up to it, there are some wonderfully supportive women ready to listen in the pregnancy loss forums.

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Shedding tears for you, mama. I can't imagine how you must feel. So so sorry to hear this. Wishing you strength and peace.
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Oh mama, I'm so, so sorry You & your family are in my thoughts and prayers

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I am so sorry for your loss; my thoughts are with you, your family, and your precious little angel girl.
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I am so so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for you and your family. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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I'm so sorry for your loss!

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Oh, PLMama, I'm so sorry
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Shedding tears for you, mama. I can't imagine how you must feel. So so sorry to hear this. Wishing you strength and peace.
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I am very sorry for your loss.

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Oh no, I am so very sorry. Please be good to yourself and your family, and know that you are in my thoughts.

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I'm so sorry

Tina - mama to DD1 10yrs, DD2 5.5 yrs and DD3 22 mo and wifey to DH.
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I am shocked and completely heartbroken. I am so so sorry. Please do everything you can to be good to yourself.
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I am so sorry!
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I'm so incredibly sorry.
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I'm so sorry.

I'm Deborah, mama to Aidan, 11/02, Sean, 9/04 (my T21 SuperBoy), and Eleanor, 8/08.
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Oh, no! : I am so so so sorry! You take care of yourself...I wish I could do something to help make you feel better.
Wishing you peace and the ability to heal.

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I wish you healing and peace. So very sorry for your loss.
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so sorry mama

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I'm so sorry, mama. Thinking of you and your family.

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oh, no. There are no words. I am just so sorry.
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Been thinking about you still. As a momma that has lost several in the first trimester, pg is approached with caution for me.

I hope this doesn't come out offensive to you, but can I ask if the doctor is considering that the CVS harmed the placenta and led to your miscarriage? It sounded like all was so well just a couple weeks ago and is frightening to think that it can all end so easily.

I know words can't help you heal, but I will keep hoping for you to find peace.

I'm Deborah, mama to Aidan, 11/02, Sean, 9/04 (my T21 SuperBoy), and Eleanor, 8/08.
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