I have two boys. When I was pg with my first, I was open to boys and girls, but I thought I'd be very disappointed if I didn't have at least one girl at some point. I wasn't really worried about not having a boy.
But now that I have my two boys, I can't imagine life without them. Boys are a lot of fun. I still think I'd like to experience parenting a girl, but then having a brood of boys sounds good, too.
I think this one is a girl, because of timing with Ovulation and because my pg has been different with this one than with the other two. Dh is convinced we're having a girl... but then, he was CERTAIN ds1 was a girl, too!
I've never had a major intuition either way, and it's always been a surprise.
I also hate those "trying for a girl" comments. We were always planning on having at least three kids, no matter what their genders. Several months ago, MIL asked me if I was going to sell our baby clothes back to a consignment store. I said "No, we're planning on having another baby eventually." (Which, is not a secret, and if she paid any attention to what we say at all, she would have known that.) MIL said "Well, what if it's another boy?" I didn't get it. So, I just said "Well, then, I guess we'll be all set with clothes." Then she went on about some family she knew that kept trying for a girl and ended up with FIVE boys, as if that was some tragedy. I was so mad, but I just very calmly said "We're not trying for a girl, we just want another baby."
Melissa , wife to Tom , mom to The Baron , the Bean , Little Bear , and Baby Beaver