I am Asian, and DP is white. DD looks slightly Asian. Otherwise, DD is the spitting image of DP. My own parents say that she barely looks like me. All of our friends say she looks like a baby version of DP. But, ALL of DP's family keeps saying that she looks nothing like him and exactly like me, including his own father. Usually, I just smile and say, "Thank you." But after DD's birthday party, I was inundated with these comments and it's starting to feel icky. Like, they can't see beyond race.
Similar experience anyone?