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#1 of 6 Old 01-21-2004, 02:03 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I am taking my 2 year old to the dr today for a rash but will also be having him look at his penis. There is a lump under the skin. When I first noticed it, it didn't bother me too much. I figured it was probably a white pearl that I have heard people talk about but it has gotten bigger and bigger. It is oval shaped and every so often he says it hurts. The lump is about the size of my finger down to the first knuckle. What do you think?
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I would guess a smegma pearl, but have never seen one. I would not let them retract, maybe it can be gently coerced to come out, in a warm tub, rubbing toward the opening gently? Not sure, but that's what I'd probably do, rather than bring him to the doctor.

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I don't think you need to be scared of going to the doctor... just go and see what he/she says/thinks... just don't let them DO anything... getting a doctors OPINION or ADVICE is not invasive or harmful... after you find out what they think it is and what they would do to treat/not treat such a thing... then you can take your time and decide if that's what you should do.

I would make this clear to the doctor BEFORE you take your child's diaper off. No prying, no retraction, nothing invasive *as a part of the exam* until the two of you have discussed it. Ask the Dr to go VERY slow and to stop and talk with you at each step of the way.

It sounds like a smegma pearl to me and it sounds like it is big enough to be uncomfortable and might even be putting enough pressure on his glans that his urethra could be squished tight... which could be the sort of thing that maybe would be a urinary problem- usually they talk about these like the size of a pea... this sounds much bigger. I would not be entirely relaxed about a "wait and see" approach with something that large... BUT I would also totally not think there would need to be any SURGICAL intervention... but this might be something that does need to be worked out... somehow.. not sure how... I guess that depends on the anatomy.

Go to the Dr and see what they say... I hope it all goes well for your son... and with the rash too.

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Thanks everyone. The dr said it is smegma and despite my request, kept trying to retract it anyways They don't know what the rash is though. Overall a pretty pointless appointment.
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Thanks everyone. The dr said it is smegma and despite my request, kept trying to retract it anyways

Did they retract or were you able to stop them in time? : Ignorant doctors!
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Well when I first showed the dr I lightly pinched the tip so that if the dr tried I could stop him. I told him "Please don't try to retract it" and he asked me if it was retractable. I said I had no idea. He said something about most kids being retractable by age 2 and I let go, he then proceded to pull it back. Mostly just enough to see pink stuff but it is still pretty attached so he let it go. I was frustrated though.
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