You can't go back..... Only forward....... So when we know better ... We can do better ..... And you both are! Just be sure you follow proper intact care which is not taught to American medical doctors....... In fact most of them know practically nothing about the functions of natural foreskin. Never retract your son....... It is never necessary to pull the foreskin back to clean under it in children. In fact premature retraction disturbs and often tears the natural adhesions causing pain and sometimes infection which you don't want! Average age of natural retraction is age ten so no messing with the foreskin...... Only clean what is seen. Be sure to pass on proper intact care pointers to your relatives too. Good for you for acknowledging what is wrong with circumcising children!