i need info. in black & white to send to my brother and his wife on why NOT to do it! anything from an m.d. would be very swaying, i feel, as they're already sucked in to the "typical" birthing proces via hospital, ob/gyn, etc. (if you could see me, there's actually smoke coming out of my ears at their decision, but i'm trying to be supportive and gracious.) however, i'm really upset for my nephew, who's due in late july!!!