Well, as much as he might want to believe it's not an emotion based decision on his part, it actually is. The facts he is researching support the fear based mentality that you must prevent all bad things from happening even if it's at the expense of losing something else. Most of us women have had a uti, sure they aren't fun, but i don't think any of us would voluntarily have a female circumcision to prevent a couple uti's throughout our life. Look up the age of diagnosis for penile cancer....its not the kiddos getting it. By the time hes old enough to know the facts and consent to removing a part of his body with anaesthesia, i highly doubt he will do it. Lastly, as an attorney, he has to watch the video. You can't make a judgment without witnessing the facts available and that's exactly what the video provides. If he's worried about what others will think, just tell him to blame out on you. No one in their right mind will cross a mamma bear with her newborn baby😊. Best wishes for your delivery, and you are doing the right thing advocating for your son's right to choose.