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Old 01-09-2006, 05:37 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I saw this on one of my lists:



An intact man, 1997

When I get hard, the feeling of the head expanding and moving inside
the foreskin, stimulating the inner foreskin nerves, is fantastic. The
feeling of the head trying to open the foreskin opening is a very
exaggerated and erotic tickle. After erection, pulling the skin back half-
way results in a searing tickle, and pulling it back all the way and laying
it back along the shaft for the first time is almost blinding. The feeling of
my skin being pushed back and forth during intercourse, stretching back
over the corona, then being pulled forward, is exquisite. The tip of my
skin moving over the head feels like a rubber band rolling over the head.
I can ejaculate just by stretching the foreskin back tightly for about ten
minutes and letting the frenulum build up its sensation and feeling that
wonderful burning tingle that leads to firing off.

After my workout at the gym I see cut guys walking up to a hot shower
with the water on the sharp setting. If I were to pull my skin back and do
that, I would double over from the sensation. If I skin it back under a hot
shower it feels like I'm being scalded. We uncut guys know what we
have. The unamputated nerve endings of the foreskin and frenulum, and
the undiminished nerves of the glans, make the penis during sex the
centre of the universe. Cut guys know that when they see a video of an
uncut guy: the head expands and turns red and purple and the foreskin
locks behind the head and turns crimson from blood flow, putting the
ultimate stretch on the frenulum. That guy is experiencing feelings that
the cut guy can never imagine.

My friend was clipped last summer because his girlfriend refused to do
him orally. Now he says he has lost 75 percent of the feeling. He says
his best part is still the part of the inside-out foreskin, about an inch
below the head. He's really sorry he didn't discuss keeping the frenulum
and highly erotogenic ridged band.

Jim Two88, "I know you don't feel what I feel", posted on Usenet
newsgroups by [email protected], December 1997
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I've found myself in a sexual relationship with an intact man. I'm having mixed feelings about it because it is the BEST sex I have ever had. And- every time with him is better than the last! Sure- there is amazing chemistry. But more than that, I can tell the difference because he's intact. He is more gentle, more sensitive, more responsive and he is obviously feeling MANY MANY more nuances than any circ'd guy. In fact, last time I said "You know, its amazing: Where cut guys go from here to here ___ with their orgasm, that's only the beginning for you!" It really makes no sense and you have to be there rather than read it I guess. I told him that he has spoiled me for other people. He doesn't seem to understand why because I think there is nothing really unusual about it for him. Good yes. Unusual? Nope.
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Thanks for sharing, Jennie. Your experience is so important. One of the reasons why sex is deeply pleasurable in the intact (both partners) state is that Nature wants to cleave the parents of children together and deep pleasure times will get them through all the crap that life throws their way. Women can overlook a lot of things when their sex lives work. This is a gift/grace our sons deserve.
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Thanks for sharing, Jennie. Your experience is so important. One of the reasons why sex is deeply pleasurable in the intact (both partners) state is that Nature wants to cleave the parents of children together and deep pleasure times will get them through all the crap that life throws their way. Women can overlook a lot of things when their sex lives work. This is a gift/grace our sons deserve.
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Hmmmmm. Is it any coincidence that the divorce rate went up when the first generation of circ'ed men reached their 30's in the 1970's? Yes, there were other factors involved, but I wonder if it wasn't a contributing factor.
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Hmmmmm. Is it any coincidence that the divorce rate went up when the first generation of circ'ed men reached their 30's in the 1970's? Yes, there were other factors involved, but I wonder if it wasn't a contributing factor.
It certainly doesn't prevent divorce; this man has been divorced twice. He's 45 and Christian Scientist- hence why he wasn't cut.
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Hmmmmm. Is it any coincidence that the divorce rate went up when the first generation of circ'ed men reached their 30's in the 1970's? Yes, there were other factors involved, but I wonder if it wasn't a contributing factor.
This is one of the issues suggested for further research in the book, 'Circumcision:the Hidden Trauma'.

It's an interesting (and eye-opening, if heart-breaking) read. There are lots of 'funny' things about American society. You do wonder if circumcision is a contributing factor (although obviously not the only, or even the most important one), on some level...
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I saw this on one of my lists:
I could quote that 100 times on the other group that Jen, Daisy, Ann, paper-bag princess and I visit and the pro-circ people on there would still insist the foreskin is a worthless piece of skin to which the man has absolutely no rights.

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Hmmmmm. Is it any coincidence that the divorce rate went up when the first generation of circ'ed men reached their 30's in the 1970's? Yes, there were other factors involved, but I wonder if it wasn't a contributing factor.
I hadn't thought of that one!! I once had a theory about that generation and the whole '94 Newt Gingrich/Angry White Male political upheaval. I wondered just what they were so angry about, then I realized they were all hitting their 40's and 50's by that point and the first wave of impotence from their desensitized, circ'd penises was setting in. Remember how Viagra became the greatest things since sliced bread just a couple years after that?
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This description in the OP is just like the conversation I had with a new friend in which he described the remnant bit of ridged band that he has. Through experimenting and learning about foreskin and penile anatomy he learned what he was feeling was the little bit of ridged band he has remaining in one tiny portion of his loose circ. His description of the sensation, of the 'hot' and 'tingling' and the intensity of the sensation made me realize that he was describing my clitoral sensation. Something my dh has never been able to do, even though we have compared our sensations many times.

So now whenever I think about circumcision I think about losing my clitoris. And how bland sex would be for me without it. There are many other joys and ecstasies of sex, but nothing compares to the pleasure from clitoral stimulation, at least for me.
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This description in the OP is just like the conversation I had with a new friend in which he described the remnant bit of ridged band that he has. Through experimenting and learning about foreskin and penile anatomy he learned what he was feeling was the little bit of ridged band he has remaining in one tiny portion of his loose circ. His description of the sensation, of the 'hot' and 'tingling' and the intensity of the sensation made me realize that he was describing my clitoral sensation.


You're absolutely right about that description describing what clitoral sensations feel like.

Reading the OP makes me even sadder to think of what so many men (including my dh, the love of my life) will never know or experience.



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