Originally Posted by mother_star
I am relieved that I did/am not getting my DS circ. But I was talking with a friend the other day and her two boys are circ, she had told me I should get my DS done because the foreskin can stick to the head of the penis (this is the reason she got it done). Is there any way to prevent this from happening? Does this happen often in uncircumsised boys?
The foreskin is fused to the glans at birth, and takes a while to separate/become retractable, as discussed above. This is probably what your friend is referring to. It is not a problem, it is not a defect, it is just normal! Some boys don't become retractable until their teens, some even later - it's all variations on normal. So your neighbor had her boys circed for no good reason.
Speaking of peeing OK, you should know that there is a condition called meatal stenosis, in which the opening of the urethra becomes irritated and scarred and urinating is impeded. This is almost entirely a complication of circumcision and happens in upwards of 10% of cases. So in addition to all the other complications of circumcision, including the loss of HALF the nerve endings of the penis, if you get your son circed, he will be at risk for meatal stenosis and having to have repeat surgery to correct it.
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|Mother Star: I am relieved that I did/am not getting my DS circ. But I was talking with a friend the other day and her two boys are circ, she had told me I should get my DS done because the foreskin can stick to the head of the penis (this is the reason she got it done). Is there any way to prevent this from happening? Does this happen often in uncircumsised boys?|
Originally Posted by MCatLvrMoMof2
Almost boy's masturbate intact or circed. The only difference is how it works. Intact men have the gliding action and a circed man does not.
You are doing the right thing by leaving your son intact. As an adult he will thank you, at least in his mind, every day of his life for your decision. I know I feel that way about my Mom...
I thought my sons circ was done wrong because the skin was attached to the head still and it scared me.. i came on here and everyone reassured me that it was ok.. and that it would go away as his penis and him got bigger.
Well i ended up having to go into the Ped to get my sons vacs and I had her look at it for her 1 on 1 opinion ( because she could actually see it ) and she reassured me that it would pull back in time.
Then after i specifically told her not to rip it back she did anyways.
Now my little guy is screaming OUCH and grabbing his crotch all day long.
its so disgusting to look at because the skin is all raw.. ( he keeps coming up to show me )
SERIOUSLY LEAVE IT ALONE!
ALSO: my son WAS circ'd at birth, and they never even MENTION to me that the skin is originally/ and could reattach itself to the glands.
Originally Posted by mother_star
Here in Canada they don't circumsise baby boy's at birth and it never crossed my mind about even getting him circumsised until recently, because the foreskin was not retracting at all at 7yo. I thought boy's were suppose to have a retractable skin by then. But after reading all the info people gave me and checking out the links at the top of this page, I found out it was normal, so there I decided to wait and see what happens.
I remember a dad asking during a Langley Hospital maternity tour, where they did the circs? the nurse gasped! and told him it is not done here, nor is it recomended to be done
So although I do know lots of boys that are circed, its mostly due to dumb reasons, I actually had a mom at the school tell me that she circed her son because it would lower his risk of aids? how ridiculous, I actually laughed.
I do think our circ rate is really low, and a lot has to do with the difficulties and expense of obtaining the circ Yeah! Canada!
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The only info i had at the time came from him, and my mother, but my mother originally got her info from him 18 years prior when he circ'd my brother
So he had pretty much been distributing false information for 18+ years...
He did NOT mention that the skin may reattach itself to the glands, and when i took my son in and asked him if the circ was done right and the skin had already been reattached he said "yes its perfect" but didn't tell me WHY it was like that so i thought he was BSing me again.
It seriously will pull away by itself... don't even bother taking him in to get it checked out because you might have the same issue i did... IT IS NOOTTTTTTTTTTT FUN AT ALLLLL seeing your precious child in sooooo much pain.
I hope Jayden is feeling better soon. My little turns 4 today; you are going to have such great fun as a mama of a little boy. Best of luck to you both, & don't let us scare you off in the vax forum or anywhere else here, even when we get emphatic. We are passionate folks, but mostly pretty fair. It's a cool board, & I'm glad you've come.
Originally Posted by Tinijocaro
Just to help reassure you, my 10 year old's foreskin just retracted a few months ago. Leave it alone and it will do it in it's own time. I had a doctor tell me when ds was 7 that he "needed" to be circumcised.
I'm glad you came here!
I can beat that! I had one tell me I needed to circ my 8 week old son because his foreskin was "stuck". UUGGGGHHHH!! I really wish these so called "medical professionals" would educate themselves more.