oh. . . . i feel bad. i just read the definition of retraction sticky. i don't know why i never read it before. after reading your response, i started thinking that maybe what i did wasn't really retracting the foreskin. our pediatrician did what i did, actually she has a couple times, and the first time i freaked out, and said something to her about how she wasn't supposed to retract his foreskin, and she said, that that wasn't. i couldn't see any part of the head of his penis,. the skin was just sort of pulled taut. anyway. . . i thought she knew what she was talking about. i'm sad. i didn't know i was doing something i shouldn't have been this morning. . . and also, i guess i should have argued with her further. she said when she did it, she was checking to see if it was clean and we should pull it back just a little and clean it. thankfully. i never really thought it needed cleaning, so i havent' been doing that.
thanks for saying just to leave it alone. i felt a little defensive for a moment, but it prompted me to read that sticky, so thankyou.