So, I've been lurking here a lot, reading a lot, as I wanted to convince my dh that we shouldn't circ any future sons (I'm preg. now) although we did our first son.(well, the Dr. did it, not us, YKWIM)
It was awful, no "complications" *just* screaming and a glazed look that lasted a couple of hours, but I will never forgive myself for having him mutilated.
Anywho, I got emotional and told dh that I was hoping this baby would be a girl so that it wouldn't be an issue, and he said, "Alright then, whatever, if you don't want it done, we won't do it" (he's really hoping for a boy
) anywho, I told him all kinds of stuff I learned on here, and he just said, "ok, he'll look weird, but ok"
I know that doesn't sound all that positive, but I'll take what I can get, and my future boys will be whole when we bring them home