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#1 of 82 Old 09-14-2007, 02:51 PM - Thread Starter
 
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So, I'm seeing the guy. Totally hot, Russian dude right?

I never let the men I date around DS, because I don't want him to grow up to be one of those kids with a never ending stream of 'uncles' KWIM.

Well, the Russian came over last night and DS woke up, so of course I bring him out of his room and into the living room to change his diaper. I asked the Russian to bring me some powder and he does, and he says, "Wow, you're child in intact (yeah he actually used that word, which I never heard until this board)" So I said, "Yes..." and started preparing my speech about how I don't care what you (the Russian) think, its my kid, I grew him but its his body... yada yada yada... and the Russian says.


"What a great mom you are"


muckemom: Huh?
Russian: I never understood cutting off what God only intended to be treated nicely.
muckemom: Oh. (he kinda took the wind out of my self rightous sails here)
Russian: do you want me to go grab a pizza for us?


That was the first time a man that I've been with, hasn't gotten his undies in a knot over the fact that I didn't circ my kid. Usually they flip out, as if I am somehow insulting their penises.

I know its not like... an awesome story, but I thought it was kinda cool.
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What a cool guy!
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Soooo...is he? :
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Very cool! And I have to say that it's very funny to hear the story written that way, with you calling him "The Russian".

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No!!! Thats what shocked me.

I mean, of all the men I've slept with : only two have been intact (and humuna humuna) but the ones who are circ'd and find out that I didnt circ DS someone seem to think its a personal attack on THEIR penises... weirdos.
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I think that's great!!!!!


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No!!! Thats what shocked me.

I mean, of all the men I've slept with : only two have been intact (and humuna humuna) but the ones who are circ'd and find out that I didnt circ DS someone seem to think its a personal attack on THEIR penises... weirdos.

We crossed posted, oh well I guess that's a little bit of a bummer but at least he knows what's right anyway!

I do think some men think not circing is saying something's wrong with their penis and well actually their is something wrong with it since it's missing a integral part. Not that that's very helpful. : But that doesn't mean you don't like their penis and that you are personally attacking it. It doesn't have to be taken so persoanlly and the fact it is by some men is one reason why circs are still happening.

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I'd ask if he has a friend, but I'm married.

Yay!

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I thought circ wasn't done in Russia? :
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I thought circ wasn't done in Russia? :
He must be Jewish-Russian, not actual Russian.
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I swear I remember someone on this board stating that circ is unheard of in Russia, even among Jews. But it's possible I'm just :
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well, he is.

And he was born in Moscow in 1985 and then when he was 14 immigrated over here... so I don't know WHY he is...








..... but I do know for a fact THAT he is.

(unless, and I'm not expert on the ummm... softer side of things, but since I have yet to witness that, could he be uncirc'd and I just haven't been able to tell???..... interesting....)

Does anyone know the answer to THAT?
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He could very well be intact and you just can't tell in his erect state.
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He could very well be intact and you just can't tell in his erect state.

Is that true?!?!
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yep, its not always obvious unless you are doing some detailed visual inspection.

Mom of a 7 yr old, 4 yr old, and 1 yr old. Wow. How did that happen?
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I don't know, the ones I've been with it was obvious they were intact. You could get creative with the foreskin even while erect. But every guy is different.
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That's awesome!

Oh and if you want to find out whether or not the Russian is intact, suggest that the two of you take a shower together. Then, "accidentally" make the water really cold all of a sudden. Shrinkage tells all!

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That's great that he's supportive of you leaving your ds intact.

to the cold shower!
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It is very possible he is intact since when erect the foreskin on a lot of men go all the way back. Take a look at this link: Warning 33 intact penis pics http://www.foreskin.org/33-color.htm Look at pic 17-21 middle & 29-33 I have seen men intact (pics on the net were you would swear they were circed when erect) Unless you see him in a flasid state or really get down there and look for the circ scar you may not be able to tell at all. Of course you could always just ask

Here is another one with side by side comparison of both http://www.circumstitions.com/Restric/comparison.html

 
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Sounds like a keeper

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HOLY FORESKIN BATMAN!!!!

I just called the Russian and asked. (Cause I don't DO showers together ) and (to appease those who like this wording)

Russian: What?
muckemom: Are you? Intact?
Russian: In what way? Mentally? (insert silly Russian giggle here)
muckemom: Shut up, are you circumsized?
Russian.......... is this a serious question?
muckemom: Yes.
Russian: Aren't you at work right now?
muckemom: Yes, and circumsision is a dirty word, but they'll deal.
Russian: Well, you know the answer.
muckemom: So you're not? I read on my mamas forum that they dont do a lot of circ's in Russia
Russian: I'm NOT.
muckemom: Not what?
Russian: Circumsised. How can you not know this?
muckemom: Well I don't spend a hell of a lot of time staring at genitals, dear.
Russian: I'll see you at 6.
muckemom: Sounds terrif.


So, no... he is intact.

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How did I get to this thread?



I have to admit I waited for the "is he intact or not" answer.
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Aww that's so sweet in a kind of messed up way!
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WOOT!!! I'm so happy for you!!

OUR DAUGHTERS ARE PROTECTED SHOULDN'T OUR SONS BE TOO! :
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This is the funniest thread I've ever read on the circ board.
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This is the funniest thread I've ever read on the circ board.


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The Russian sounds like a lot of fun.
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lol... I'm amused. Very cool But, if it were me, now I'd have to inspect it to figure out why I couldn't tell before :

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I figured he'd be intact, considering he's Russian. LOL.

Look at that, so many American women complain about how "weird-looking" the intact penis is, and muckemom didn't even know her boyfriend wasn't circumcised. :
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