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#151 of 173 Old 10-11-2006, 02:47 AM
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He'll be happy if the proceeds of his endevours go towards a Nintendo Wii, an Xbox 360 and various games to go along with...

Will pimp my husband for video games....

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I have had sex with intact and cut men, about 50/50 actually. . . and there's really not much difference to be honest.
too bad i can't make that judgement for myself.

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while im sure you had only the best intentions with this, i have to agree with A&A that its patronizing.
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Wow. Just wow.

Friction? Really?? Is that what I'm missing out on?

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You just need to find a different angle, my dear. To increase the friction. Because that's what raw, swollen, bleeding vaginas require- more friction.

Sigh.
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You just need to find a different angle, my dear. To increase the friction. Because that's what raw, swollen, bleeding vaginas require- more friction.

Sigh.
So I'm confused. Is more lube the answer? Or is it friction?


I'm sure if I just cheer up.....
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I have had sex with intact and cut men, about 50/50 actually. . . and there's really not much difference to be honest. You don't notice the foreskin so much because as soon as the man is erect, the foreskin naturally pulls back. There's some nice friction, but nothing that you can't get from angle and position in a cut men.
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That's really rude. There are alot of women on here that have endured alot of suffering because of this issue, and to chalk it up to needing a change of angle or position IS patronizing. I agree.
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She responded to the OP, and judging by her glib and flippant answer, clearly hadn't read the thread before she posted. I hope she does, since this thread contains so much incredible information and so many raw emotions. I'm sure she'll learn much from it.

It's been a while since we had one of these threads. I always get a lot out of them... even though I can't seem to post my own feelings and experiences on the subject. But mine are similar to what others have said. :

Pandora- Pics???? Who's going to rent him sight unseen?

Tigertail- what an interesting former profession! I mean that sincerely.

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OT: If it's severely vertically challenged, unestablished, out of place, mean, ugly, patronizing or otherwise baiting: Don't feed it, report it.

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Also OT/ but how can you see which post someone resonds to? Can you see that? Sometimes that would be nice to have a:
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I'm replying to all or
I'm just commenting on the thread option (and maybe there would be more, but 3 is a good number).

When I see that it is a long thread and I am replying to OP w/o reading through, I usually try to state that in my post so that it is clearer.

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True dat, Jen, but I tend to think people are on the up-and-up and just really really uninformed when something like this appears. They pop in and think they're helping, because they haven't taken 5 minutes to lurk and read and understand the forum. I don't have an itchy trigger finger with the ! button (maybe it should be itchier...)

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Also OT/ but how can you see which post someone resonds to? Can you see that? Jessica
No, I don't think there is an option for that at all. It would be nice! But in this case, she had quoted the OP in her reply.

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I also usually state clearly if I am replying to an OP without having read the thread, if I'm replying to something at a certain post number without having read further, or if I am replying after just skimming.

I do that because of situations like this. There can be a whole lot happen in a thread after the OP, and whatever I say can be grossly misconstrued unless I clarify up front that I'm not party to the happenings...


I really hope that this is the case with the most recent flippant comment. Unfortunately, the previous ones stated that they had read and considered this thread for a while before posting. :
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Ok, I just want to say thank you so much for this thread. You have helped me understand so much about my own sexual relationship. My dh is circed. We have only been with each other. I have often faked, and wished, prayed, hoped, and hurried for it to be over. I would never in a million years want to hurt my dh so I have kept most of it from him. During pg I can't stand sex. It hurts so badly. I am swollen and sore for hours or even days afterwards. My dh is a very loving man and isn't in it for his own gratification, just for mine. I thought it was all my fault I "didn't like sex better." I thought it was my body letting me down when I had uncomfortable or painful sex. We have been married 7 years. We've gained a lot of experience and knowledge of each other. I am usually able to avoid some of the trauma, but it still happens. I usually have to be pretty buzzed to have amazing sex. (I must be relaxed enough or something.) How sad is that? I'm only 22 and I'm so scared about what sex will be in 10 years. I've mentioned restoration briefly before. Thank you for giving me the motivation to really pursue this. I hope my dss' wives thank me some day for sparing them this! Hugs to all you (us) suffering women out there. I hope that it gets better for you someday.
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Pandora- Pics???? Who's going to rent him sight unseen?
Of what, I'm not posting pics of my hubby's bits
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Ok, I just want to say thank you so much for this thread. You have helped me understand so much about my own sexual relationship. My dh is circed. We have only been with each other. I have often faked, and wished, prayed, hoped, and hurried for it to be over. I would never in a million years want to hurt my dh so I have kept most of it from him. During pg I can't stand sex. It hurts so badly. I am swollen and sore for hours or even days afterwards. My dh is a very loving man and isn't in it for his own gratification, just for mine. I thought it was all my fault I "didn't like sex better." I thought it was my body letting me down when I had uncomfortable or painful sex. We have been married 7 years. We've gained a lot of experience and knowledge of each other. I am usually able to avoid some of the trauma, but it still happens. I usually have to be pretty buzzed to have amazing sex. (I must be relaxed enough or something.) How sad is that? I'm only 22 and I'm so scared about what sex will be in 10 years. I've mentioned restoration briefly before. Thank you for giving me the motivation to really pursue this. I hope my dss' wives thank me some day for sparing them this! Hugs to all you (us) suffering women out there. I hope that it gets better for you someday.


You've been married since you were 15?

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Of what, I'm not posting pics of my hubby's bits
Rent them but don't post them? How screwed up is that?

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Rent them but don't post them? How screwed up is that?
It's against the UA anyway (to post em.)

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You've been married since you were 15?
hey it happens. i was forced in to marriage at the age of 17, and went through a divorce as a result. i was so naive then... when i think about it, im surprised i didn't circ my first DS. thank God i had an anti-circ ob/gyn who educated me on circ.
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hey it happens.

Yeah, I know it happens, but it still always surprises me. And I was checking to make sure I did the math right!

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Yeah, I know it happens, but it still always surprises me. And I was checking to make sure I did the math right!
it always surprises me too and it happend to me!
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Ok, I did some rounding! I got married at 16 and we're almost married for 7 years. (We've been active together for 7.) Yeah, I'm young, but I'm glad I got married. I knew what I wanted and I've always been way mature for my age. (Chock that up to being born at home and breastfed ok!) And I'm a great mom even though (or because) I'm young so there!
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OT: If it's severely vertically challenged, unestablished, out of place, mean, ugly, patronizing or otherwise baiting: Don't feed it, report it.

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