|"no, I can't stick around. My wife is at home and I've been thinking about her all day, I just want to go home and spend some time with her"
this had me laughing right out loud. i wish i was married to you! i can't really imagine my husband actually forming those words, although he feels that way, but he as as 'typical' a guy as they come in this stereotypical manner. i have talked to him about it- and i think he understands but i know he feels like i am wrong about her. but any way i run it through my head, it just seems wrong, her behavior. i mean, she is young- 22. so she doesn't have a ton of life experience, but i can't see it being ok to think asking your boss out for a beer or staying late until he is done working to have a glass of wine with him (we have a restaurant), i mean, doesn't this seem a little off? i haven't mentioned yet that she was basically dating her professor at college, they both denied it because its against the school's policy, but clearly, she has no idea of what is 'ok' and what is not ok. to me, she craves and needs the attention of older men in a power position. she doesn't date her peers. to me, she has a psychological problem that could probably be resolved in therapy, but i really don't want my husband hanging out with her in the mean time.
anyway!! he knows how i feel about it, so, that's that. i have been having all of these emotional-flashbacks to when my old boyfriend put me thru this, and its just such a horrible thing. i hate cheating.
so, back to the kittens.
how cute are they?!! i love kittens, i had 2, bro+sis- went to get 1 but ended up with 2! they were the best sweetest puffballs ever, they have since died, but there is nothing like a cat or 2 (or 3!!) around to bring a certain wonderful energy to your environment/life. that $150 seems steep. i think our local spca asks for a fee of $100 per cat, and sometimes they do 2for1. i hope she renegotiates with you so you can get a 3rd. what about a grown cat, or a teenager-cat? already fixed, maybe less $?
about the edd. i know i am going max 39 weeks. i think if everything was 'normal' and no cesarian, my last pregnancy went to 41wk5d, so maybe past edd again? although, the second baby is supposed to come earlier, right? when have you gone with your other children? i hope you go as early as possible toward your edd, less time in bed! it would be great if you were all healed up over the holidays!
so, how is your bedrest so far? i think the info chesapeake gave you is great. i have yet to go get my beads etc but i'll do it tomorrow. i need some new stuff, am tied of all my old stuff, and i usually have NO time to do it, so this is the perfect opportunity.