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Old 08-19-2005, 11:03 PM
 
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Traci, I'm so glad for your positive scans!!! I hope that your ears get better very soon.

Janet, congrats on the last chemo.

EFmom, I pm'd you.... Glad to discuss my experience. I'm 3.5 weeks out now from surgery & healing. I think I might even pull off YMCA now, but I couldn't do a "U."

My hair is finer too. Still dark, but less so. The biggest hair PITA is that half of my leg hair is ingrown. Grrrr. Oh well....

Nice to see you all.

Myrrh, you ok?

You all are amazing!
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I'm here! I'm O.k.!~ I'm better than o.k., really! Got the results back from my PET and I only have 1 tumor/node with any activity left!!!!!!!!!!! It's in my chest-right side-so I am doing lots of visualization work on it. I'm imagining it's the wicked witch in the wizard of Oz after she gets water thrown on her and starts melting and screeching "i'm melting, i'm melting, oh! what a world!":LOL My mom does a hysterical rendition of it-using her hand to shake her throat as she says it.
We are still going thru with all my rounds of chemo as scheduled-so 4 more months to go...I have started procrit shots and I'm a new woman from it-before I was deep into almost constant debilitating fatigue. I get another shot tomorrow-I might just make it thru that stack of laundry!
The picc line is not going to happen-i am grateful. Dr. doesn't want to rock my boat-smart man!
I tease the nurses who give me chemo that I'm going to have have a cactus farm when I'm thru just so I can remember them!
Traci! I am so excited about your scan results! I had read that the ct has a tendency to read the scars/show no accurate improvement. What a relief!!! I hope your ears are better!
Thanks for being here and for sharing brave, beautiful mamas!:
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I forgot to say YES! JANET!! Last chemo, new birthday, new beginnings!!! Best wishes for you!
May the new threshold of life you find yourself upon bring you the most you could ever imagine for you and yours!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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I'm here! I'm O.k.!~ I'm better than o.k., really! Got the results back from my PET and I only have 1 tumor/node with any activity left!!!!!!!!!!!
Rock on Myrrh!!!!
Rock on !!!
I am sooo happy for you!!! YOU are winning!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Myrrh, I'm so glad that the procrit is helping you to feel better & that your PET results were so fabulous.

I am healing physically, but feel like I'm having a tougher time mentally. I'm thinking maybe an antidepressant would help, but I'm not sure which one of my gazillion doctors I should talk with about it.

Having a lovely visit with my brother, his wife & their darling son.

I just love hearing from you all. I hope that you are all doing well.

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This kinda interesting article was in my local paper...
'Cancer's Lost Generation..."
http://www.oregonlive.com/search/ind...an?lcen&coll=7
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I just got back from my first meeting w/my surgeon. I've got to go for another MRI, but she's first got to make sure my port is MRI-compatible. I'd hate to have the thing start flying around inside me once the MRI started!

Anyway, she feels another little lump, but doesn't think it's anything. If the MRI shows that it isn't (and I'll take any positive thoughts to that effect!), she thinks I'm a good candidate for lumpectomy, if that's what I want to do. Decisions, decisions.

Other than that, food is still tasting like soap, and now all the fingernails on my right hand seem to be infected. It only hurts when I use my hand. Oh, the joys of chemo! But since it shrunk that stupid tumor, I shouldn't complain.

AuntieM, thanks for the pm. I'll get back to you soon. My onc was the one who prescribed Lexapro for me.

Myrhh, I can see that witch melting from here, green face and all! She's going to be nothing but a little steaming puddle of water before you know it!

owensmom, glad your homestudy is chugging along!

Hugs to all!!!!
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Howdy.

I'm a MDC lurker but not new to AP or parenting forums. I found a lump or mass in right breast in late March and then my 2 yr old quit nursing on it. Tried every homeopathic, mastitis/plugged duct remedy out there until I saw a dr for it in Mid June. 4 wks of antbx, a mammo, ultrasound and biopsy later i was dx with IBC stage 3a. Thankfully we were only nursing for naps and nite nite, but still i had to wean my son sort of abruptly. Chemo began 3 wks ago, I am being treated at Duke and in a clinical trial. Been looking for a forum that makes sense to me and I think this is it.
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bubbysmom, I have seen something to the effect of the following posted on several threads dealing with cancer: We're glad you found us & so sorry that you are here. Please join us. Like you, many of us have had to wean because of our treatment. It tears at me a bit each time I read about how good BM is for our babes... Comfort & hugs to you. How is your chemo going? I hope that you are tolerating it well. If feel at a loss for words. Please know that I am sending thoughts & prayers of healing & comfort your way.

EFMom, I opted for the lumpectomy. I wasn't ready for a mastectomy, but do envision myself going through with a bpm some day. Hope that your MRI results are clear.

owensmom, thanks for the article. The assistant at my surgeon's office said that they have a bunch of young patients.

Myrrh, Mom asked how you were doing the other day & sends her best wishes. I'm "throwing" buckets of water your way.

My hair is getting long enough now that people are mistaking my 'do for a bold styling choice. :LOL I'm even considering keeping it fairly short. Either that, or I'm growing myself some "princess hair."

Anyway, I think of you all so often. You hold a special place in my heart!
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bubbysmom..I hate the fact that you have to find us but I am glad that you choose us because this is a great group of warriors on the winning path to survival...

AuntieM
I am getting the same thing on the hair issue right now too..the other day when we were out shopping the sales associate asked for my ID and when I gave it too her she said wow you really got a hair cut (My hair was reeeeally long in my drivers liscence). It feels kinda weird, because I have even gotten compliments on my *hair style.*
I do have to admit it is soooo easy..but I really want it longer-my brother even said he likes my hair this way better than he did when it was long and my mom to everyday says she just loves my hair...lol...oooh well *sigh*

I bought some butterfly bushes this week and planted them..late I know but they were on sale and I am hoping for great blooms next summer...


My ears are doing better (I think)...but my neck is still tender so that is kinda a drag...
btu I still feel very good and am living my life to the fullest everyday and awaiting my PET on the 6th. I do nto go back to the doc until the 16th then for my results..did I type this already...lol..sorry if I did
Going to the bathroom feels like I am passing glass shards, which is an iron deficiency is what I am told, so I need to get back to taking my iron 2x a day....I am sooo bad about taking my meds : I guess that is what I get if I don't so it is in my own doing...,

hope you all are doing well..

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my hair is thinning but has not started to fall out. i began chemo on 8/12 after a few delays and now i'm off track again due to low WBC. i have inflammatory BC, like so many others found it thru nursing. we drive to Durham from Charlotte once a week for treatment (taxotere and herceptin, doxil for clinical study). i have mouth sores, light sensitivitity, fatigue, some irritable bowel issues, my joints are achey at times, mood swings, headaches and dry lips.
for some reason, yogurt has upset my bowels, so i'm worried about getting enough probiotics (i suck on a Udo's Choice lozenge...a lot). i did get some MJ, which before now wasn't that much fun, but it's really helping me.

the cancer i can deal with. i'm not fixated "what ifs" but just seeing my little guy grow up since he's my only. i was 7.5 wks pregnant when diagnosed.
i'm so happy that there is this group on MDC. i need the support of like-minded mamas.
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bubbysmom! I find the mj helps me a lot. I recently spent 10 days in the hospital with a staph infection and dh was so kind and made me a batch of mj brownies so I could still benefit from it since I couldn't smoke in the hosp. I wonder if you are having lactose intolerance issues with the yogurt? Maybe supplemental acidophilus would be better for you.
Traci-i use hemaplex for iron. The floradix is real good too-very absorbable. I LOVE my butterfly bush! It has the most gorgeous magenta blooms that smell sooo goood! I planted it next to the rabbit hutch by the honeysuckle and it has gotten quite large! The blooms make such interesting addition to bouquets. I sure miss gardening! The yard is on sink or swim mode right now!
I love and hope and pray for all us daily! I will add you and yours too now bubbysmom, if you find no offense in me extending myself in that way.
Thanks for being here everybody and checking in. It helps and brings me comfort hope and strength. and thanks for the buckets of water:LOL!
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please feel free to add me to your prayer list, and thanks for that.
my hair started coming out today...so now it's only a matter of time before i start looking like i have cancer.
how do i explain the hair loss to my 2.5 yr old son?
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When I started to lose my hair, it was very empowering for me to shave it off myself. DH has a set of clippers he uses to trim his hair. We trimmed it very short & it worked great. Maybe you can make your son a part of that experience. DD was about a year younger than your son when my hair came out. She didn't seem to care at all. Of course, we couldn't have a conversation about it, so I don't know what she thought.

I'm not sure what your community is like. I was very comfortable going out here (Northern CA) with nothing on my head.

Many of us can attest that it really does grow back. I hope that it doesn't bother you too much to lose it.

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I also felt like AuntieM describes..as I also shaved my head when the shedding just got to be too much...It gave me a great sense of power and a bit of control over what has been happening to my body...almost like I am not going to let it take my hair to I will do it myself before it gets a chance...and it felt 1000x better to not have a hairy back on my clothes or worry about cooking food without my hair in it or pulling out the lint roller for the 10,000x for the day. Not to mention DD was pulling on it and would just have handfulls and it became a real sense of tension between us as I did not want her touching me for fear of her pulling my hairand that was just not cool!

I was very self conscience at first but then once I had a good overing of hair ( and only about 1/4 of and inch) I started going without covers and used scarves tied as headbands around my head. I am in OH mind you and a very small town so women who look different always get neck turns-even my baby wearing gets the titled head looks...lol...I stick out regaurdless so I guess I should not have worried so much in the first place...lol..

My 5 year old had a very hard time with it..all I know is it took a lot from my dh to help him I was ata loss because I did no tlike to see him upset but I eventually took it as a learning experience for my son to teach that all people are not the same and that hair does not make a person. He now says mamma look your hair is getting longer! and rubs my head and it is not an issue at all. He I alos let him wear my scarves around and he gets a kick out of that.SO make it fun if you can...

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bubbysmom, welcome. I'm so sorry you had to find us, but we are here to help support you during this difficult time.

I also had my dh shave my hair off once it started to come out. I would have found it too depressing to watch it fall out. I mostly wigged outside of the house. I like my wig, but it does get uncomfortable. My hair started coming in once my chemo switched to Taxotere. I've got about a quarter of an inch now. In a month or two I'll be pretending it's a hairstyle and ditching the wig.

My guess is that at two and a half, your child will get used to your new look pretty quickly. I had my kids put temporary tattoo on my scalp when I was bald and they got a kick out of seeing me with tree frogs all over my head! I explained to my kids (8 and 4) that mommy had to take some very strong medicine to make her better, and this was something that happens when you have to take that medicine. They were pretty OK with it.

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Hi everyone!! I thought I'd get a chance to write more but here it is more than a week since my last chemo and I haven't had a chance to check in!

Bubbysmom, ditto, I'm so sorry about your diagnosis but also so glad you've joined us. Not sure if you've read through the whole thread plus the last one (now archived but there is a link to it at the beginning of this thread) It's probably a lot to digest but I remember us all talking about so many of these issues, breastfeeding, hair falling out (I sported a mohawk for a week--kinda empowering!). My boys were 7 months and 3 1/2 years when I was diagnosed in March--Maxwell, now 4, has been incredible through my whole treatment--we had a child life specialist (one of the perks of living in Canada--covered by health care!!) help with educating him about the cancer and treatment, on the assumption that the more knowledge one has the less fear--it has so far proven true, he helps explain to people about the "chemoferapy", and the different kinds of cells in our bodies, etc., and is always bringing me little things (like flowers and rocks and licorice) that he thinks will help kill the cancer cells. Every age is different though, I can't imagine what my baby thinks about my hair falling out, he always laughs when I put my wig on (which isn't that often) and likes to slap my bald head! I was also diagnosed at stage 3a and have had a mastectomy, chemo and am starting radiation sept 19th. I will start sending you good healing vibes!!!! BioK is great for healthy flora during chemo, it is little individual containers of live acidophillus, kinda like supercharged yogurt and comes in either a dairy or soy base.

We're back up at the cottage now, feeling very happy to be finished chemo!! I did finish on the 19th, my birthday, thanks everyone for all your well wishes!! It was an absolutely incredible day, DH brought a huge cake into the hospital which we shared with all the nurses including my special nurse Manny (I think I mentioned he was also born Aug 19, 1964--weird eh) and the other patients. My kids came too and helped me ring the bell at the end. It was a freaky weather day with near tornados and biblical flooding, at one point in the afternoon we looked outside and it was pitch black like nighttime--my ds said it looked like Kansas! (Myrrh, more Wizard of Oz references--he watched it for the first time recently, I'm thinking about you completely melting that witch!!) When we got back to our house the skies opened and it POURED warm rain and we all danced around and got SOAKED and then then the sun popped out, it felt glorious. We capped the day by going down to Cherry Beach to watch the full moon rise over the lake. WOW.

Hey, I better get to bed, everyone's asleep except me!!, don't want one of the munchkins to fall out!
Biggest love and kisses to everyone, EFmom, Traci, AuntieM, Myrrh, owensmom, bubbysmom I'm thinking so much about you all!!!

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It's so nice to see everyone posting. I just love hearing from you all. It is one of the highlights of my day.

I had my first appointment for rads today. They set up & simulation & did a CT. Wednesday, I'll go back to do & test run & should start the treatments next week some time. Everyone was very nice.

I've started a big get ready for Christmas plan. My house has just gotten nuts & I think it will really help me start getting it under control again. It sounds a little crazy to start so early, but I just love the thought of being so organized since that is not usually one of my around the house strong points. I was organized enough when I was working. I think it's just one of my hang-ups--thinking I cannot keep a clean house. So far, I've swept & sprayed of my porch, 2 windows in the front of the house, a window screen & the porch mat. I've also cleaned & treated the wood on the front door & put some ferns in the way too shaded window box at our entrance. I feel really great about it.

I pray for you all daily & hold good thoughts for you & yours. Becoming friends with all of you is one of the blessings that has come along with my cancer diagnosis.

Well, I can hear poor DH struggling with a very sleepy DD. I think I'll go give him a hand.

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Hola friends
I am posting a quickie here..
http://www.cancure.org/homeopathy.ht...20for%20Cancer
I am taking this to my oncologist and begging him to let me go to my homeopath as well as see him.
I got stung today 5 times by yellow jackets after running over their nest with the lawn mower..I wanted so badly to pop ledum but my oncolgist says nothing to do with homeopathy until after I am all clear
so I found this and wanted to share..
Love your time spent Janet..sounds beautiful..
AuntieM glad your day went well at your rad appt.

gtg hand is hurting...

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Oh, Trac, yikes on those yellow jackets. I hope that you are ok. Darn meat bees!

I got my first tattoo...& my second & my third. Looks like I got stabbed with a mechanical pencil. :LOL They drew all over me & I couldn't help thinking about how much my mom hated the idea of us or someone else drawing on us when we were kids.

DH & I are hoping for a lunch time appointment for the rads so that he can watch dd while I get treated.

So, since it's September, should we start a new thread. Not sure if it's important or not....

Healing vibes & prayers going out to all you strong, fabulous mamas!!!!
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http://www.cancer-prevention.net/?engine=adwords!800&keyword=%2Acancer%2A&match_typ e=
I am very interested to know if anyone else has followed any of this information found here.
I have started taking the flax seed oil last week.
I am also going back to being 100% veg head like I was pre-kids.....
I do not know why I did not start all this reasearch into this *c* crap earlier..I guess my denial factor and thinking I am invincible...

I still do not feel like my ear infections are gone...my neck node is still swollen and tender but not like it was. My armpit where I had the largest tumor is aching..no swelling nor can I feel anything but it aches off and on.

I had my PET yesterday and boy was that an experience. The machine was broke when I got there and then the poor man in front of me was too large for the machine and broke it again.
The injection this time hurt so bad...did not hurt me last time...The nurse told me that they do not let you read or turn up the lights after they give you the injection so you have "down time" so it does not pool into one area of your body. She said that is why they make you sit and not walk or talk or it would pool in your jaw from talking or you lower leg from walking....never knew this ....

I will find out next Wednesday what it says.
SO I am very nervous...trying to stay positive...working very hard at it..

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Traci, in response to your question, I have been very interested in what I can do in terms of nutrition to stave off a recurrence & help myself to heal. I have to admit, I'm a bit of a skeptic. My background is in biology/biochem, so I want to know that if something hasn't been proven to help, but shows promise, at least it is not thought to cause harm. I also feel like some supplements can be helpful, but for the most part, food provides the best source for nutrients. Some of what was mentioned on that site had me nodding my head, other things had me saying, "I disagree," out loud--my DH laughs at me when I talk to the TV. :LOL I didn't notice a name on that site, so that makes me a little wary. I would use it as a starting place to look into his/her ideas.

I'm definitely thinking that more omega-3s is a good idea & am intrigued by CoQ10--one of those things I feel has promise, but no really strong evidence. I'm also thinking about upping the fruit & veggie intake, going organic as much as possible & aiming for mostly meatless meals. On the other hand, I'm finding it a bit harder to make myself be more careful about sugar & alcohol. I have a big sweet tooth--especially where chocolate is involved. I also find myself rebelling against any thought of self-denial & almost binging on whatever it is I'm supposed to avoid. :

I hope that your ears clear up soon. No fun at all.... When I was in chemo, I felt like my tumors ached a bit as they shrunk. I suppose that makes sense as there must have been a lot of activity cleaning up the dead cells. I'm holding good thoughts for your PET. I really strongly disliked (read hate) the pain that accompanies injections. Yuck.

Well, I have 29 more rad sessions to go. Not too bad so far. It's been nice to see DH mid-day.

DD starts at a parent participation pre-school next week. I am really jacked about all of the things that we are all going to learn.

Myrrh, Mom asked after you again. I was sad to say that I haven't heard from you in a while. I hope that you are ok.

How is everyone else? EFmom, any decisions on the surgery? Bubbysmom, how are you coping? How is your ds? Janet, how are you doing several weeks out from your last chemo?

Love & hugs & healing thoughts & prayers.
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Dr. Sears even backs the flax seed oil which I thought was waaaay cool:
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/4/T041700.asp

IKWYM about the sugar that is a huge one for me to eliminate too!
darn..dd just woke...gtg!

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I love to add a little flax to a yogurt shake with fruit. Yum! Yesterday, I tried a similar smoothie with a little tofu, some mango juice, a banana & some flax seed oil. It was fabulous.

Thanks, Traci, for the Sears link. Have you read his family nutrition book? I've heard good things, but haven't read it...

Bye for now.
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Prayers and healing white light please my way..tomorrow is my big day for my 2nd PET results...

all of us have colds this week....

AuntieM -nope never read Dr. Sears book on nutrition.....hhmmm

list is so quite girls...please post when you are able

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My surgeon finally got my MRI results and she was pleased. She thinks a lumpectomy is the way to go, and I'm going to do that. Surgery is scheduled for next Tuesday, so please think "clean margins" and other positive thoughts for me! I will be most relieved to finally get this off my chest, so to speak.

I am also looking into the nutrition aspect. I'm also a skeptic with a science background, and I'm thinking of changing to a low fat diet richer in fruits and veggies, with lots of walking. AuntieM (I pm'd you, btw), I know what you mean about the binge tendency. My sense of taste is finally returning and I'm allowing myself a week of binge eating before I make the switch.

Traci, good luck with the PET. I'll be thinking of you. AuntieM, keep plugging away with the rads--I'm glad to hear they aren't too bad. Janet, I hope your rads are easy, too. Bubbysmom, how are you doing?

Hugs to all!
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Susun Weed's "Breast Cancer? Breast Health!" book (I know not everyone has bc) had a lot of recipes and herbs and such to help stop tumors... during treatment I was taking dandelion and nettles to boost my blood, and mushroom 7 source to shrink tumors, etc. An interesting overall read...

Good luck next week EFMom! Thinking good thoughts Solange... and everyone!

My MIL was making us grilled cheese sandwiches for dinner and said "do you remember how much cheese you ate last year?" We laughed over it, really strong cheddar was the only thing I could taste a couple days after chemo...
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Well, once again my PET was not clear. It was actually worse then the
last one.
No new growth, but under my armpit and in my chest and in my neck the
spots were.
My oncologist wants to biopsy the node in my neck to see if it is
still HD and he said if it is [HD] that would be bad...?..why would
that be bad? I did not ask or think about it until after we left.
He said he wants to rule out what it is in case it is a new cancer
growing from the side effects of ABVD.

SO he then wants me to start salvage chemo on the 26th and then do
the PBSC collection transplant. He said he would send me anywhere I
want to go for that and that the salvage chemo he would do here at our
local hospital.

I am thinking I want to go to Sloan Ketterling since it is _the_
Cancer center. I have heard no one rave good or bad about any
hospitals here in Ohio. Anyone?
I am wondering if I should call them before getting the biospy done to
see if they want to do that and the salvage chemo there. This would
mean what to do with my 2 young children during this time...to lug
them to NY with my husband and I during a very stressful time, or
leave them with Grandmother while we are gone (which as an AP parent is going to be really hard not to think about the damage done there with seperation issues-as I have already had enough of that with DD).

So many things to decide in such a short time...alternative treatments too....
any thoughts greatly appreciated.


Wish I had better news to share...I guess I am thankful for the PET, the CT scan did not show any of this.

I will keep fighting and I will win.

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Oh, Traci, hugs to you! I am struggling with what to say. I guess 2 things come to mind. First is: Yes!!!! I totally agree with you. You WILL keep fightning & you WILL WIN!!! Second is: in terms of what to do with your babes, you will come to a decision that is right for you.

I think that you are wise to contact whatever center you think you might get treatment from to see how they advise you to proceed before you make any decisions.

EFmom, I'm glad that you have come to a decision about your surgery.

owensmom, thanks for the suggestion.

I am sending out prayers & thoughts of comfort & healing to you all!!!

Off to try to polish the house up a bit. DH & I have our first parenting class associated with the parent participation pre-school that DD is in. She had her first day today. So fun!
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Traci, Yes! You will win! I'm so sorry about the disappointment that is inevitible with the results you received though. My dr. would say-just a bump in the road-nothing we can't get over together!
EFmom-I will have you in my thoughts especially now and on tues.
I hit my own 'bump in the road' when i ran out of my ativan prescription and had some vomiting.: All better now though.
Chemo tomorrow-yippee!
gota go dh hollering for me-dindin!
Love yas!
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