I have never had a huge sex drive, but since having my son 6 months ago it is down to nothing, and I would like to change that. I know nursing can have something to do with it, however, I'm just not content to think that for the next few years sex is gonna suck.
I used to blame it on my birth control, but my husband had a vasectomy and we are birth control free. So now I have no excuse. Sometimes sex is painful, even with "helpful measures" like lubrication, having some wine etc. Often times I have bad cramping after.
Is there anything natural I can take to increase my sex drive? Is the pain something I should be concerned about or is it most likely because I had a baby 6 months ago and am still getting back into the swing of things ( I had a homebirth, no tearing).
Any advice? I miss this part of our relationship, and I know my husband does too.