I hope I'm posting this on the correct forum.
From my two births, my perineum had torn a total of about 1.5 inches. The first time, the stitches tore out and nothing could be done after the fact. The second time (at home), I just didn't have any stitches.
I know there is a surgery that can be done to repair the perineum, but I'm not wanting to do that right now with a baby and 4 yo.
I feel deformed and sex doesn't sound appealing to me because of it (even with Josh Hartnett! LOL)
Anyone else have this sort of grieving?
From my two births, my perineum had torn a total of about 1.5 inches. The first time, the stitches tore out and nothing could be done after the fact. The second time (at home), I just didn't have any stitches.
I know there is a surgery that can be done to repair the perineum, but I'm not wanting to do that right now with a baby and 4 yo.
I feel deformed and sex doesn't sound appealing to me because of it (even with Josh Hartnett! LOL)
Anyone else have this sort of grieving?