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Unhappy Can't get pregnant after loss

Hi. I lost my baby during the first delivery. It was really awful, I still remember that day. I didn’t see him alive. Doctors have taken him away right after the delivery. I had several surgeries and I’m not sure I can get pregnant again. We were TTC for 3 years. We have visited several doctors, they all said that there’s almost 0 chances to get pregnant again. I’m not really sure if it is a psychological problem or I really have problems with reproduction system. I was visiting the psychologist for 2 years and I thought I’m over it. But I’m still thinking about our loss. Our life could be absolutely different if our baby survived. I don’t know what to do. I’m confused and I’m afraid that my husband can break up with me because of my infertility. Any help?
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I hope that you can find peace. You are in my prayers.
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Have you thought about adoption? It could possibly give you a positive way to move forward.
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Hi, Anna. I think you have to calm down a little bit. You are too nervous. You said that you are afraid that your husband will break up with you. Why are you thinking so negative? Instead of being afraid, you should start thinking of solutions. You have to forget your past life and consult the fertility specialist. There are a lot of types of treatments for infertile couples. You can try the IVF or surrogacy. Or, why not to adopt a baby? This is a great chance to help some lonely baby. 3 years of TTC is a long period. It's time to start looking for help. You are unable to fight infertility on your own. Don't give up, please. Do something to change your life.
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Hello, girls. Thank you for your reply. My husband doesn’t want to adopt. I was trying to explain him that it is a great option for us. But he keeps saying that we will still have our own kids. I’m not sure it is possible but we keep trying.

Nika, I was thinking of IVF. Have you tried it? I looked through hundreds of forums to find positive reviews. Girls write that it really works. As it costs really a lot, I want to be sure that it won’t fail. I’m so afraid, you know. I want to give a child to my husband. I think I’m ready to try smth new. What should I start from?
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