I have done 3 blessingways (I have no problem using that term, so forgive my total lack of PC) for friends and have ideas and books you can borrow if you'd like - I also have spices you can use for a footbath, sage to burn, henna you can use if you want to do her hand or feet or belly, etc. but you can purchase that stuff pretty easily too. If you check out my sig link - from my homepage there is a links page and I have lots of Blessingway links there as well. Feel free to PM me and we can chat or see if I have anything you need.
(I have 3 girls: 6, 4, 2 and I myself am a size XL/14-16 mama so stuff for us is what I'd be ISO for a trade.)
WOHM married to SAHD, living the dream w/our: 3 girls (14,12,10) and 3 boys (7,5,3) and tie-breaker due Jan 2014