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#1 of 23 Old 08-17-2008, 12:47 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I've been spotting, and bleeding since Wednesday. I am pretty sure I am losing the baby too. It seems to be going around this week.

I will probably know more on Monday when I go to see my holistic doctor.

This is frustrating for me as I've never spotted or bled like this in a pregnancy so I can only assume I am losing the baby, or have lost the baby and am just waiting for it to pass.

The bleeding has gone from very light spotting to heavy spotting (only way I can describe it). I've opted to not go to the ER and get an u/s because I know they can't do anything to prevent a m/c and I have been struggling for days on whether to go or not just to find out what happened.

Instead I am at peace with everything, either way. So Hopefully tomorrow I may get some answers, but if not then I am still waiting for the baby to pass.

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I'm so sorry.

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Please don't give up hope yet though, I had spotting/bleeding for a week straight and when I went in everything was FINE, I just had a small bleed in my uterus. Hopefully this will be the same thing for you. I'll be thinking about you!

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I hope there's some other explanation for your spotting, per previous posts. It's not over 'til it's over! Good luck and take care. Hugs.
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Yes, spotting in itself doesn`t mean anything bad. It will be good to check it out though. I`m so glad you are at peace either way.

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It's been getting progressively worse. If sitting and relaxing then "nothing" but when I stand I can feel fluid/blood drain from me, and when I sit on the toilet I feel and hear the blood come out of me. It's not "much" but noticable and enough.

Cramps have been worsening today as well.

I am not optimistic about having a healthy baby at this point. I am at the point where I believe I am just waiting for the baby to pass at some point.

It would be a miracle in the baby was still alive and well at this point.

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I'm sorry

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I am so sorry to hear about this! I have had 2 m/c's both were 7 weekers~ It is not an easy experience~ Please take care of you!

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I am so so sorry to hear about all this. Praying for you, even if it seems like a longshot, miracles can still happen.
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I am so very sorry.
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Oh mama, I'm so sorry.

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I am so so sorry to hear about all this. Praying for you, even if it seems like a longshot, miracles can still happen.
Thank you ALL!

I of course am hoping for a miracle but not counting on one.

I'll be sure to update ASAP tomorrow once I find out anything.

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Don't count yourself out just yet, I had exactly the same experiance with DD, a few weeks further than I am now. I "leaked" blood when I stood, and it was a steady drip on the toilet, but DD is here, 8 1/2 months and healthy as a horse.
I hope you have the same outcome as I did, the bleeding is horrificly scarey s:
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Hoping for a miracle for you. So sorry you are going through this.
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Thinking about you and your bean mama! I hope all is well.

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Thinking of you...I hope you've gotten news by now. Sending you healing vibes through cyber space. I am so sorry.

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