Quickening, yes I mainly decided and dh is going along with it but I often hear from him "I just hope you are doing the right thing." Basically that sounds like "hey if one of the kids gets hurt/sick etc it's my fault
:" But at the same time, he always asks me before he puts in a form to decide where to move next (we are Army) he asks me what exemptions the state has. So I think he is with me on it but still a bit hesitant because he was raised with the "doc" is god ideal kwim?
Anway yes, there are a few reactions in the family and my mom is allergic to so many medical things it's not even funny, she can't use contacts, dentures, thimerosal, many types of medications and anestesia (I know I spelled that wrong! :LOL). Dh has a few drug allergies, so do I. I have arthritis in my knees from an MMR booster at age 12. Both my mom and my dh got very sick from a flu shot (probably the thimerosal in it) Daria had a reaction, but her records are really weird to make it look like she didn't (that's in another post). And on dh's side of the family there are a ton of allergies, mainly respitory ones, and asthma. So I'm afraid of the vax making the already predisposed allergies and asthma a problem for my kids. They may get asthma but they may not but the only way to know if it was from genetics or vaxes is to skip the vaxes. My son was "okay" with his vax, meaning at the time of vax he was fine and so far is okay but we have alot of behavioral problems with him, vax related who knows.. Daria has eczema, food allergies and had a vax reaction. Probably shouldn't have had vax but anyway I learned now. I only started the research a few months ago after Daria's reactions.
I guess I assumed she meant that the IV vax would be just a weakend form of the virus/disease not the actual vax watered down. I told her I wouldn't do it until I researched it, and I won't do it at all now that I think about it. I told her flat out I was more worried about the toxic chemicals in there than the diseases. I said to her they claim it isn't much but how much does damage? Think about lead, any amount in a child's body is dangerous. So she left me alone after that and just did an exam on Eliza and told me how healthy she was