Thanks for responding. I did ask if perhaps other labs might be able to test for other disease and I was told that she doesn't know of any place that does and had not heard of it. It actually makes me feel better to hear that she's gotten it wrong with some of the basic information. I was happy just to have someone in the medical community speak to me respectfully even knowing that my kids were not yet vaxed, but it does seem like she's either purposefully or accidently given me misinformation.
She also strongly cautioned me against basing my decisions on the information in the package inserts because the manufacturing companies have to add EVERY possible side effect and the chances are so low of being one of those affected by them.
I don't know, I've tried to get information online, from literature, from those who SHOULD know, I've taken time off of work, I have minimal free time. How the heck am I supposed to make this decision??!! I'm so frustrated and worried and annoyed.