This makes me so angry for you. One thing you can do, is some internet research on what to look for at well baby visits for the next few months. I'm not saying you shouldn't do them, but if you literally can't at this point, may as well find out some of the things they do and look for at well visits so you can keep an eye on your little one. I would also use this time to really research vaccines to decide which ones you want and what you want to skip- especially since it will be hard for you to even get to a doctor to have one or two shots, your child may grow out of the more critical age before you are at a place where you can get a select few shots, possibly eliminating your need for them altogether.
Listen up, doctors, the more you do this all or nothing crap, the more you are going to get nothing!
"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." ~Mark Twain