i might be posting late.
my son has all his shots.
honestly, it helped my son for me to stand back out of view when the nurse did it, because when I stood there and held him, he BLAMED me for the pain and cried longer, and was mad at me (yes, i could tell).
so, just stand back then come to the "Rescue", is my advice.
we did tylenol before the visit, and then motrin after (BABY VERSIONS OF COURSE) and he didn't even get a temp. he did sleep for HOURS after each shot, I guess all that stress on the body makes you tired.
so. anyway. we vaccinate, and i understand. it is hard, but you must do what you feel is right.