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#121 of 151 Old 04-04-2009, 01:06 AM
 
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I am so very sorry.
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I've been thinking about you. I wanted to share this website with you, its all written by moms who have been there:
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I'm hoping for as much peace as possible for you both.
Thank you for this. I can't tell you how much it has helped me to read the stories of other mothers who have experienced this pain.

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mischevium,

I am so sorry for your loss of little Soren. What a precious, precious soul you carried. I lost my Reagan at 37 weeks nearly 4 years ago so I completely understand your grief and loneliness right now. Peace and hugs to you, mama.


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I am not in this DDC or even pregnant but I am crying for you right now, Mischevium, and MI Dawn. I wish I could offer some comfort. Much love and healing vibes to you and your families
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My heart is breaking, Mama. I went through it as well. I am so sorry. Words cannot take away your pain... I still grieve every day for my son whom I lost in 2005. The hurt never goes away but it will get to be more bearable as time goes on. I found some comfort on the loss board here on MDC... I hope you are doing OK. I will be thinking of you and your family.
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Thank you everyone for you words. They help.

I wrote out the story of what happened here.
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I can't imagine how hard it was to share that story. Thank you for taking the time to share it with us. I still think of you daily... Praying for healing and peace.
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Thank you, mischevium. So hard to express, but you are in my thoughts daily.

Mama to one little blur, watching everything move too fast. Eden 4/10/2009.
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Thank you everyone for you words. They help.

I wrote out the story of what happened here.
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As I read your story I cried so hard for you. I can feel the spirit of your ds. He will always be forever remembered in your family from yrs beyond our time. My Grandmother had a dd pass 11 days after birth and her spirit still resides in every one of us, even my own children. Soren will be a valuable gem that will reside in every one of your living legacy from many generations to come. That: in and of itself, is a powerful purpose.



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Oh Mama. Please know you and Soren are in my heart daily. I am so sorry for your loss and heart-break.

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As I read your story I cried so hard for you. I can feel the spirit of your ds. He will always be forever remembered in your family from yrs beyond our time. My Grandmother had a dd pass 11 days after birth and her spirit still resides in every one of us, even my own children. Soren will be a valuable gem that will reside in every one of your living legacy from many generations to come. That: in and of itself, is a powerful purpose.



That is beautifully said.

Thank you for sharing your families story Michievium

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Thank you for sharing I feel these internet hugs are just so not enough. I wish there was more that could be done to help you and support you thought this time

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Thank you so much for sharing your story, Im sure it was extremely hard to do. And also, thank you for being on this pregnancy journey with me and the other April mommies, I hope you feel all the love and support we are sending you!!!!!

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thinking of you today mama
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mischevium,

I am so sorry for your loss of little Soren. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so, so sorry this has happened to you. I think of you and your family alot. I am praying for all of you and thinkign of you - hugs and peace to you, your precious son, and your family.
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Thank you for sharing the pictures. He was beautiful and wonderful. Hugs.

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He is absolutely beautiful & perfect. Those photos are amazing.

I'm speechless after reading your story. Even as a nurse & midwife, it is shocking. I just cannot imagine what you went through & continue to process mentally & emotionally.

I think about you & Soren every day
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Thank you for sharing those beautiful picutres of Soren. They were amazing. I think the world of you and your family!
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Your son is beautiful. I am so so sorry for your loss.
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Mama, of course that baby knew you loved him! My heart is breaking for you all...
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What a beautiful, beautiful little boy.
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He looks just like a doll. I'm glad you shared those with us.

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I'm thinking about you every day and wishing you peace. Thank you for sharing your story. You have been through so much, both physically and emotionally.

Soren is just beautiful.
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He's beautiful mama. So perfect.

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still thinking of you & Soren every day
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still thinking of you & Soren every day
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more hugs

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thinking of you today. I hadn't seen his pictures, what a beautiful boy! just wanted you to know you are loved and he is remembered!
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thank you for sharing you beautiful pictures with us. soren is always remembered here

Mama to one little blur, watching everything move too fast. Eden 4/10/2009.
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