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#1 of 14 Old 04-15-2009, 10:38 AM - Thread Starter
 
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A friend of mine who is due in 13 days with her first DS just let me know that she didnt feel the baby move yesterday so she went to the hospital only to be told he had passed away, they dont know why. my heart is breaking for her. I lost DD and know her pain. I cant believe it. She and her husband were high school sweethearts who had been trying to start a family for a while and she finally got pregnant. He was so happy they were having a son, and now this? my goodness, there are just no words. Sorry, just had to get it out... I dont know her little boy's name... but RIP baby boy :


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That's so sad. I'm very sorry for their heartbreaking loss.

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A friend of mine who is due in 13 days with her first DS just let me know that she didnt feel the baby move yesterday so she went to the hospital only to be told he had passed away, they dont know why. my heart is breaking for her. I lost DD and know her pain. I cant believe it. She and her husband were high school sweethearts who had been trying to start a family for a while and she finally got pregnant. He was so happy they were having a son, and now this? my goodness, there are just no words. Sorry, just had to get it out... I dont know her little boy's name... but RIP baby boy :

Ohhhhhhh no. no no no no!

Please tell us his name when you know. And try to keep connecting with her weeks or months from now... it doesn't stop hurting for a long, long time. She's going to need a good friend like you. :

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So sorry for your friends loss. Ill keep her and her family in my thoughts. :

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I'm so sorry to hear that.

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I have his name, baby boy Sean Patrick Saavedra. Much love to the Saavedra family during this hard time.


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That poor family.

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Ever-evolving mama to my beautiful Brynn, and my little dimple-face Noah .
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poor family. my heart goes out to them right now in a deep way.

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oh no!

: Mother (4/11/06) to Josephine and (4/23/09) to Oliver and baby (due June 1st)

Babies: Angel (6/29/02), Tiberius (3/8/11), Lillianna (12/27/11)

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So sorry to hear this news. Your friend is in my heart.

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I'm so sorry to hear this & I'm sorry that you've had a loss too.

"survivor's guilt" is totally normal... I hope that your friendship can sustain you both during this difficult time

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